If you like, erect an ice-cream stand at the bus stop and give free supply of ice-cream to passersby, there are people that would never still like you. I pray you get satisfied with the love of God, and you be at peace with yourself. People WON'T like you, and you will LIVE.
Do You Really Have To Beg For Love?
I'm speaking to that one who is a people-person, who loves people and loves to be around them, you who they would ask to go a mile, but you don't mind going 10,
you who would do anything to make people happy, but have been wondering why you don't get this energy back.
It hurts you because you can't stop being yourself, it hurts you because you wish you can switch on them and just be opposite, but you can't.
You've considered all the options, and the best there seem to be is talking to them about it. But even when you talked to them, it seems like you're demanding too much.
You've even got to the point of bending your rules and breaking your values just so people can love you... If this is you, come a lirru closer, a lirru closer dear, lend me your heart please,
If you will just listen to me and break that burden of pursuing love, you will be experiencing one of the greatest transformation in your life.
First, take a step back, take a deep breath and look at how your life has been, think about the times you've had to go extra ungodly miles to secure love, think about the times you've had to bend and break, it's hard to genuinely admit, but admit that you've been childish,
Cry if you want to because, yeah, it's painful. When you're done admitting, open this verse and read it aloud to yourself, "The Lord hath appeared of old unto me, saying, Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee." Jer 31:3
Read it loud and clear with understanding, and let the revelation hit you deeply. When it does, you will know, you will certainly feel this energy sprouting like wild fire within you. You might first be broken but the energy will come.
After this, determine and be ready to walk alone for some time. Learn to do your own things, look within you and discover yourself again. Learn to pay attention to yourself all over again.
When this happens, you will know when to look into people's eyes and say NO or YES. it would be a wholesome experience. Then little by little, your own army will come around, people who are willing to break their necks for you, people who will not tell you you're doing too much.
See, your life is more valuable than living it to get likes and nice comments, you're not a post on social media.
To those who have people who can go the extra mile for them, celebrate them, tag them, Love up on them, to those who will need to put all these into practice, welcome to a blissful journey.
Jesus loves you, BYG fam loves you, I'm Sissi, and I love you 💜
I had a friend that said their mind, only when telling a joke. They didn't know that I'm God's baby girl and in turn God's paddy. He highlighted the seemingly "meaningless" lines to me as though with a bold marker.
They'd want to express some jealousy, but they'd do it in the form of a joke and for every time they did, I could discern what exactly they intended to say, and that was because I had made a simple but sincere prayer to God.
It went like, "Lord, please I don't want to find myself living Psalm 1:1." God did not only answer my prayer but also gave me the ability to make the right choices and the necessary tools that I needed to do that—The gift of Discernment.
Sometimes, God’s intentionality about us shows in really random things. There are times you have a thought/desire you didn’t even pray about, & you just come across it on your social media or somewhere you weren’t expecting. A God who hears our WORDS and HEARTS. We stan 🙌
There are lovers that listen to every words you utter and grant your desires. Then there’s that lover who not only pays attention to your words, but to your heart too... He listens to every of your unsaid words and satisfies you, how refreshing to know!
The times you craved for shawarma and got it without asking,
The times you needed money and someone just asked for your account number (out of the blues. Lol)
The times you needed a friend and he sent someone to love you... I mean, you remember those times, don’t you?
Sis, You Said No To Him Already, So Why Are You Still Monitoring His Life?
Why are you stalking him, really? Why are you checking his social media to see if he has the picture of another lady? You already said you weren’t interested, so why?
I’m talking to you my dear, why so bothered? Why do you still look out for him at events or gatherings? Oh, I get it, the Bible tells you to be your brother’s keeper, so you’re trying to do your part innit? Lmao!
I’m not done... why does your stomach knot when you see him talking to another lady? What’s the challenge? I mean, the young gentleman met you and spoke to you about his interest, you said no,