When I went to college, I was fortunate to receive generous grants because my family made so little our expected contribution was $0. I still had to do work study, and many years of undergrad I worked another job on top of that. 2/10
I had roommates and peers tell me they were "poor" because of how limited the amount of money their parents gave them each month while I was trying to decide how to make sure I 3/10
When I interviewed for grad school, most schools questioned how little lab work I had while completely ignoring working 2 jobs junior and senior year while maintaining a high GPA.
When I went to my PhD program, almost all of my peers had parents 4/10
When choosing a postdoc position, the first question was where I could afford to live and fully support myself. I was fortunate to find UNC 5/10
All of this is to say, I never felt like I belonged in academia. I will never forget how many peers in grad school and my postdoc questioned why I simply didn't buy a house. I've never lived in one, I have only known apartment life.8/10