@caitskirby Part of the issue is there are two disabled communities that have vastly different needs (but they do overlap creating confusion).
The one I represent professionally has work-preclusive impairments; the other community is trying to not be discriminated against in the workplace.
@caitskirby The one trying to get into the workplace without being discriminated against pushes for "differently-abled," "handicapable," and so on as "disabled" implies they can't do the work that they want to have the opportunity to do (and they can actually do with little accommodation).
@caitskirby Those with work-preclusive disabilities are actively harmed by this can-do rhetoric because politicians and the public-at-large haven't figured out that there are 2 very different though slightly overlapping disabled populations.
What's the harm experienced?
@caitskirby The can-do rhetoric of the handicapable makes politicians and the general public believe that work-preclusive disabilities aren't actually work-preclusive which causes the law and policy of the Social Security Administration to change such that it more difficult to get benefits.
@caitskirby The handicapable no more separates the disabled into 2 populations in their rhetoric than the politicians or the general public do, but there are 2 populations and they have very different needs that need to be served separately.
@caitskirby The hangup over being called "disabled" only comes from the handicapable side as the handicapable view being called "disabled" as an impediment toward equality.
@melJsaysso I think it is time for a history lesson.
@AaronHeikkila, @BigHeadMafia,
@vhjvh70477682, and @newboots1977, you all may find it interesting.
Mel Jones (@melJsaysso) has read this before.
@melJsaysso @AaronHeikkila @BigHeadMafia @vhjvh70477682 @newboots1977 tl;dr — the reason child support exists isn’t for the sake of the children.
Child support exists because women—unlike men—were viewed by society (including by women) to be incompetent in handling their finances and incapable of working enough to care for their kids themselves.
@melJsaysso @AaronHeikkila @BigHeadMafia @vhjvh70477682 @newboots1977 The law in what’s now the United Kingdom🇬🇧 was changed (adopting the “tender-years doctrine”) because of the whinging of an adulterous ex-wife () and the United States📷 soon followed with the “Talfourd Act” (named after the British reformer).spartacus-educational.com/Wcustody39.htm
@barrenessblack2 @LanceVader @AsherSummerson @Kekistan42069 @TonyChiaroscuro @vermithrax12 @RAndrewCastel @QuintusHisp @MRA_ResourceHub @morgana1776 @Prometheus52960 @Jjacques444 @TheOldPoet @annavrmac @Oneiorosgrip @Edith1502483868 @h3rbsandash3s @JohnDavisJDLLM @StinkyGrrrlz @PhilipWill29881 @Cary_wh @JGainsbourgh @FionnMacCool @MKMartinWriter @Minx171717 @chels_spoonie @PeonyPrincess27 @C3ve1iaSays @chels_eaalberta @loulabelleaus @Apistevist1 @TXWomenRESIST @nunya_pat @bad_fido @snide_sally @surf_witch @dose_of_Close @Oneantifem @JohnWat59766564 “[F]ree single women could own property and make contracts… [as femme sole]. In the British colonies, these women possessed the same legal status as men, enabling them to serve as the heads of… households, own… businesses or property, and pay taxes” ().amrevmuseum.org/virtualexhibit…
@barrenessblack2 @LanceVader @AsherSummerson @Kekistan42069 @TonyChiaroscuro @vermithrax12 @RAndrewCastel @QuintusHisp @MRA_ResourceHub @morgana1776 @Prometheus52960 @Jjacques444 @TheOldPoet @annavrmac @Oneiorosgrip @Edith1502483868 @h3rbsandash3s @JohnDavisJDLLM @StinkyGrrrlz @PhilipWill29881 @Cary_wh @JGainsbourgh @FionnMacCool @MKMartinWriter @Minx171717 @chels_spoonie @PeonyPrincess27 @C3ve1iaSays @chels_eaalberta @loulabelleaus @Apistevist1 @TXWomenRESIST @nunya_pat @bad_fido @snide_sally @surf_witch @dose_of_Close @Oneantifem @JohnWat59766564 “Under the New Jersey State Constitution, femme sole women that owned property equating to 50 pounds were eligible to vote” ().
Women weren’t male property and could avoid the status of femme coverture by not getting married thereby remaining a femme sole.amrevmuseum.org/virtualexhibit…
@barrenessblack2 @LanceVader @AsherSummerson @Kekistan42069 @TonyChiaroscuro @vermithrax12 @RAndrewCastel @QuintusHisp @MRA_ResourceHub @morgana1776 @Prometheus52960 @Jjacques444 @TheOldPoet @annavrmac @Oneiorosgrip @Edith1502483868 @h3rbsandash3s @JohnDavisJDLLM @StinkyGrrrlz @PhilipWill29881 @Cary_wh @JGainsbourgh @FionnMacCool @MKMartinWriter @Minx171717 @chels_spoonie @PeonyPrincess27 @C3ve1iaSays @chels_eaalberta @loulabelleaus @Apistevist1 @TXWomenRESIST @nunya_pat @bad_fido @snide_sally @surf_witch @dose_of_Close @Oneantifem @JohnWat59766564 “[M]odern Americans [believe] that women were… chattel or property in previous eras…. However, a more apt comparison would be that… women in early New England possessed the legal status our society currently designates for minor children” ().libguides.ctstatelibrary.org/archives/uncov…
@wanderwoman47 @JohnDavisJDLLM @AsherSummerson @StinkyGrrrlz @Oneiorosgrip @barrenessblack2 @TheOldPoet @Cary_wh @vermithrax12 @annavrmac @JGainsbourgh @FionnMacCool @Edith1502483868 @Kekistan42069 @MKMartinWriter @Minx171717 @chels_spoonie @PeonyPrincess27 @TonyChiaroscuro @C3ve1iaSays @chels_eaalberta @loulabelleaus @Apistevist1 @TXWomenRESIST @MRA_ResourceHub @nunya_pat @bad_fido @snide_sally @surf_witch @dose_of_Close @Oneantifem @JohnWat59766564 Consider that now about 82% of single parent homes in 2021 are being run by single mothers (, table A3; ).
The Boy Scouts of America (@boyscouts) “today announced that it will rebrand to Scouting America, reflecting the organization’s ongoing commitment to welcome every youth and family in America to experience the benefits of Scouting” (), which makes sense.
While this is not the invasion of male spaces some make it out to be, this is (in an amusing way) feminists indirectly delivering a massive gut punch, if not coup-de-grâce, to the Girl Scouts of the United States America organization (@girlscouts).
Both Cub Scouts and Scouts are sex segregated.
“Family packs have both boy and girl dens that meet separately” (, p. 8).
@AsherSummerson @DanSull36510584 @WudanStudent @bellapromote @vermithrax12 @darcyagain1 @Oneiorosgrip @Edith1502483868 @WrightSet86065 @MKMartinWriter @Kekistan42069 @annavrmac @StinkyGrrrlz @MRA_ResourceHub @Cary_wh @nunya_pat @brendan_loves @JGainsbourgh @FionnMacCool @Minx171717 @chels_spoonie @PeonyPrincess27 @TonyChiaroscuro @C3ve1iaSays @barrenessblack2 @chels_eaalberta @loulabelleaus @Apistevist1 @TXWomenRESIST @bad_fido @snide_sally @surf_witch @dose_of_Close @Oneantifem @JohnWat59766564 “Thus far, our results are consistent with a shift away from the breadwinner-homemaker model of marriage to a more egalitarian form…” (), but egalitarian marriages are demonstrably in the minority of marriages making up about a third of marriages.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/P…
@AsherSummerson @DanSull36510584 @WudanStudent @bellapromote @vermithrax12 @darcyagain1 @Oneiorosgrip @Edith1502483868 @WrightSet86065 @MKMartinWriter @Kekistan42069 @annavrmac @StinkyGrrrlz @MRA_ResourceHub @Cary_wh @nunya_pat @brendan_loves @JGainsbourgh @FionnMacCool @Minx171717 @chels_spoonie @PeonyPrincess27 @TonyChiaroscuro @C3ve1iaSays @barrenessblack2 @chels_eaalberta @loulabelleaus @Apistevist1 @TXWomenRESIST @bad_fido @snide_sally @surf_witch @dose_of_Close @Oneantifem @JohnWat59766564 Your source () WAY overestimated the number of egalitarian marriages that actually exist ( | ) due to the sample that they used and that distorts their findings and reduces the applicability of their findings. ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/P… pewresearch.org/social-trends/… pewresearch.org/social-trends/…
@AsherSummerson @DanSull36510584 @WudanStudent @bellapromote @vermithrax12 @darcyagain1 @Oneiorosgrip @Edith1502483868 @WrightSet86065 @MKMartinWriter @Kekistan42069 @annavrmac @StinkyGrrrlz @MRA_ResourceHub @Cary_wh @nunya_pat @brendan_loves @JGainsbourgh @FionnMacCool @Minx171717 @chels_spoonie @PeonyPrincess27 @TonyChiaroscuro @C3ve1iaSays @barrenessblack2 @chels_eaalberta @loulabelleaus @Apistevist1 @TXWomenRESIST @bad_fido @snide_sally @surf_witch @dose_of_Close @Oneantifem @JohnWat59766564 Your source again: “When the breadwinner-homemaker model of marriage dominated American family life, deviations from this ideal were associated with a heightened risk of divorce, especially for wives who outearned their husbands” ().ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/P…
@AsherSummerson @WudanStudent @annavrmac @brendan_loves @JGainsbourgh @Oneiorosgrip @vermithrax12 @FionnMacCool @Edith1502483868 @Kekistan42069 @MKMartinWriter @Michael_B_1970 @Minx171717 @chels_spoonie @PeonyPrincess27 @TonyChiaroscuro @C3ve1iaSays @barrenessblack2 @chels_eaalberta @loulabelleaus @Cary_wh @StinkyGrrrlz @Apistevist1 @TXWomenRESIST @MRA_ResourceHub @nunya_pat @bad_fido @snide_sally @surf_witch @dose_of_Close @Oneantifem @JohnWat59766564 @tomleykis Did you know that “unmarried, childless women under 30 who live in cities” already out-earn men pursuant to @TIME Magazine (), @usnews & World Report (), and @PolitiFact's @PunditFact ()? content.time.com/time/business/… usnews.com/debate-club/sh… politifact.com/punditfact/sta…
@AsherSummerson @WudanStudent @annavrmac @brendan_loves @JGainsbourgh @Oneiorosgrip @vermithrax12 @FionnMacCool @Edith1502483868 @Kekistan42069 @MKMartinWriter @Michael_B_1970 @Minx171717 @chels_spoonie @PeonyPrincess27 @TonyChiaroscuro @C3ve1iaSays @barrenessblack2 @chels_eaalberta @loulabelleaus @Cary_wh @StinkyGrrrlz @Apistevist1 @TXWomenRESIST @MRA_ResourceHub @nunya_pat @bad_fido @snide_sally @surf_witch @dose_of_Close @Oneantifem @JohnWat59766564 @tomleykis @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact "[O]nce we control only for one variable—hours worked—and compare men and women both working 40-hours per week in 2017, more than one-third of the raw 18.2% pay gap reported by the BLS disappears" (). fee.org/articles/a-new…