I’ve had people arguing with me saying that I’m overreacting to Cuties and they don’t see any problems with the film. So here is a thread to explain why I am so angry, and hopefully by the end of it, you can understand.
Warning: it is upsetting.
1. When I was younger, I knew a man who turned out to be a predator. He was raping his own daughters. 4, 7, and 10 at the time. The girls told me and my sister. They trusted us. We told our mom right away. He ended up in prison.
2. When I watched Cuties, I could only imagine how many predators out there like that guy were easily watching the film. Those defending Cuties don’t seem to realize that predators, too, have easy access to Netflix. There are many scenes that go way way way too far. Sickening.
3. The story is about a girl rebelling against her family’s cultural traditions, getting wrapped up in our hypersexualized culture, then finding her way back. The character could have been older and the story would have been the same.
4. There was no reason for her to be ELEVEN except to push the envelope. Watch the film and you’ll understand. If your intention is to raise awareness about how society is sexualizing children, I don’t think sexualizing eleven year olds is the appropriate way to send the message.
5. If the film’s true intention WAS to spread awareness about society sexualizing children, then the backlash to the film was what they were striving for. So if you’re standing up for the film sexualizing eleven year olds, you’re actually part of the problem.
6. So, what I’ve learned over the past few days is... in 2020, apparently I’M the crazy monster for feeling sick while watching Cuties and feeling the need to take a stand to protect our children. Got it.
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“When women are freed from burdens in the home... the future grows brighter for everyone.”
Hey @LynnParramore You ignore the significant role reversal that’s already happened here; it’s boys & men falling behind in our postindustrial economy. *1 nbcnews.com/think/amp/ncna…
All you (and others) want to focus on is “more girl power!”
Pre-pandemic, women became the majority of the workforce. Female-dominated sectors are soaring, male-dominated are disappearing.
It’s actually our boys & men (and families) we should be concerned about! *2
Boys have fallen far behind academically, but instead of addressing this, we double down on female empowerment and shame innocent boys into stepping aside. Our education system has become feminized and we’re leaving boys behind. *3
93% of our inmates are male. 90% grew up without a father.
Single mom households are 5x as likely to be living in poverty.
Do you know how we can reduce crime & poverty?
By society re-affirming the importance of men & fathers and their contributions to the family & household.
How do we do that?
First, stop the anti-male propaganda. We must spread awareness about how important men & fathers are.
Second, start young. Male dominated jobs are disappearing so we HAVE to adequately prepare our boys for the future; stop the shaming & encourage boys, too!
Third, we’ve had a significant role reversal in families. We’re busy blaming & shaming men into changing gender expectations for themselves & women, but we have to teach WOMEN that THEIR expectations for men must adjust in our modern world.
The gender pay gap? That’s due to women’s personal choices, and if there IS discrimination, there are laws already in place for that.
Sexual harassment? No... it wouldn’t help there, either.
The housework gender gap? You’re kidding, right?
But for men...
Research shows that men receive 63% longer sentences than women do for committing the same crime, and women are twice as likely to avoid incarceration if convicted.
If the ERA comes about, I hope we can address this inequality.