1/ "Lived experience" can be loaded term. Speaking only for myself, I would never ever discount or minimize another person's experience or their efforts to describe it. However, I often encounter people who speak in ways that seem to presume their "lived experience" should trump
2/ everyone else's lived experience or their own personal experience/perception/understanding is universal truths that must apply to all. As psychologist whose work is all about listening & hearing, my ears would perk up if someone said "my lived experience is..." vs. saying "my
3/ experience is..." While the statements are objectively the same, the former locution somehow seems to be making a greater claim. Something about term "lived experience" implicitly seems to set it apart from the rest of experience & accord it a different & privileged status.

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-Mary Jo Peebles
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