The single clip from "Cuties" that is being circulated is not representative of the entire movie.
I have watched it. This is a serious, ethnographic film by a Muslim woman on girlhood, cultural tension, race, belonging, sexism, and the widespread sexualization of girls.
Yes, there are some terrible camera angles and images. I would not show it to your young kids. If you are attracted to little girls, you should not watch it.

But sexualized content is widely available and impacts young girls. That's the point. That's the reality of our children.
The two-minute clip is part of a story. It is not the whole story. This girl is torn between cultures, yearning to belong, deploying her body.
The ending is amazing. I can't say more because spoilers. But it's beautiful.
In case you're wondering, I am quite prudish as people go.
I know there is an extremely polarized controversy right now. I was reluctant to step in it. But I actually feel protective on behalf of the filmmaker. Maimouna Doucoure made a serious film about a serious issue, and people jumped on it, I suspect, mostly without watching it.
As for p*d*philes, do you realize they have access to specialized free content? Why would they sit through a contemplative serious ethnographic film about a girl between cultures?

As for your kids, I have bad news. They too have access to content. That's the point of the film.
In Doucoure's research for her film, she found that girls see that sexiness gets a woman popularity. So they copy risque moves, but as they are just little girls, they don't realize what their dancing looks like to others.
washingtonpost.com/opinions/cutie…
As Doucoure says, "if one really listens to 11-year-old girls, their lives are uncomfortable. ... We, as adults, have not given children the tools to grow up healthy in our society. I wanted to open people's eyes to what's truly happening in schools and on social media..."
But I want to add, as @winnie4prez says, the sexualization of these girls is also a terrible thing.


I do feel this way. I wonder about these girls.
Does art allow us to do these things to real human beings? It should not.

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Then I consider some of the community brothers who rise to celebrity-level prominence with not HALF the leadership, organizing, emotional, interpersonal, spiritual skills+strength of these women

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So-and-so would be next-level prominent in the community if she were a man

With some power, her skills and experience would make real change in our orgs, our communities, our mosques!

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