Dear Believer, saying nobody can judge you, means you hate accountability.
Saying “only God can judge me” means you do not respect the position of other believers God has placed around you.
Permit people to call out your wrongs, and learn, you don’t know it all.
Dear Believer, Let People Judge You
"Don't judge me, even though I decide to walk naked on the streets,
Don't judge me, even though I sit on heresies and teach it,
Don't judge me, even though I decide to pick my best of friends amongst unbelieving people... Don't judge me"
These are the sayings of a people who hate accountability, these are the sayings.
If your hands are pure, why are you afraid of being judged? If your ways are clean, why are you scared of standing in the court room?
You know of a certainty that you will be vindicated, so why do you avoid being judged?
Dear believer, Jesus says before you remove the speck in other people's eyes, first remove the beam in your own eyes, Matthew 7:1-4.
This verse is not saying we shouldn't remove the 'speck' in the eyes of others, it is only telling us of the qualification required of us, just so we don't practice hypocrisy.
If you don't submit yourself to accountability, if you don't submit yourself to be corrected, you will walk in error, and if your fellow believers cannot judge you, the world will.
Don't run away from accountability, don't run away from correction. See what Proverbs 12:15 says, "The way of a fool is right in his own eyes: but he that hearkeneth unto counsel is wise."
You have an assignment today, submit yourself to people who can watch you and correct you, ask them for what they think about what you're doing currently. It doesn't matter if they're younger or older than you are, go ahead and ask.
I had a friend that said their mind, only when telling a joke. They didn't know that I'm God's baby girl and in turn God's paddy. He highlighted the seemingly "meaningless" lines to me as though with a bold marker.
They'd want to express some jealousy, but they'd do it in the form of a joke and for every time they did, I could discern what exactly they intended to say, and that was because I had made a simple but sincere prayer to God.
It went like, "Lord, please I don't want to find myself living Psalm 1:1." God did not only answer my prayer but also gave me the ability to make the right choices and the necessary tools that I needed to do that—The gift of Discernment.
Sometimes, God’s intentionality about us shows in really random things. There are times you have a thought/desire you didn’t even pray about, & you just come across it on your social media or somewhere you weren’t expecting. A God who hears our WORDS and HEARTS. We stan 🙌
There are lovers that listen to every words you utter and grant your desires. Then there’s that lover who not only pays attention to your words, but to your heart too... He listens to every of your unsaid words and satisfies you, how refreshing to know!
The times you craved for shawarma and got it without asking,
The times you needed money and someone just asked for your account number (out of the blues. Lol)
The times you needed a friend and he sent someone to love you... I mean, you remember those times, don’t you?
Sis, You Said No To Him Already, So Why Are You Still Monitoring His Life?
Why are you stalking him, really? Why are you checking his social media to see if he has the picture of another lady? You already said you weren’t interested, so why?
I’m talking to you my dear, why so bothered? Why do you still look out for him at events or gatherings? Oh, I get it, the Bible tells you to be your brother’s keeper, so you’re trying to do your part innit? Lmao!
I’m not done... why does your stomach knot when you see him talking to another lady? What’s the challenge? I mean, the young gentleman met you and spoke to you about his interest, you said no,