When was the last time you helped someone without them knowing it was you?
Like a dog after a hunt, said Marcus Aurelius, we shouldn’t make a fuss when we help someone. We should just go on to the next thing.
Here’s why (with examples) you should do anonymous acts of kindness👇
Research suggests that altruism can improve your attitude and make you healthier, happier, and less stressed – otherwise known as the “helper’s high.”
Doing an act of kindness is gratifying, but there’s an added layer of satisfaction that comes with doing it anonymously.
In his song Nickels and Dimes, Jay-Z said the “purest form of giving is anonymous to anonymous.”
“The person on the receiving end doesn’t have to feel some kind of obligation to the giver,” he later explained. “And the person giving isn’t doing it with an ulterior motive.”
Anonymous act of kindness example: The donor who gave £40,000 to fund a young girl’s scoliosis surgery itv.com/news/utv/2020-…
Other ideas for anonymous acts of kindness:
• Leave a suspended coffee at a coffee shop
• Donate to a @gofundme or @JustGiving campaign
• Pick up litter in your local area
• Send a letter to let someone know you admire them
• Pay for the person behind you in the drive-thru
“The reward for all the virtues lies in the virtues themselves, for they are not practiced with a view to recompense; the wages of a good deed is to have done it.”
- Seneca The Younger
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Epictetus: 1. Neither death nor pain is to be feared, but the fear of pain or death
2. The poor body must be separated from the spirit as it was before, either now or later. Why then are you troubled if it be now? For if not now, later
Seneca: 3. We must make ready for death before making ready for life
4. Death would be a thing to dread if it could stay. But it either doesn’t come, or comes & is gone
5. What matters is not how long you live, but how well; & often living well means that you cannot live long
6. There are no ills to be suffered after death, reports that make the underworld terrible to us are mere tales
7. Let us order our minds as if we had come to the end. Let us postpone nothing. Let us balance life’s account every day.