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𝐹𝒶𝓉𝒾𝓂𝒶 𝐵𝒶𝓇𝓀𝒶𝓉𝓊𝓁𝓁𝒶 Profile picture
@FatimaBarkatula
Sep 29, 2020 • 4 tweets • 1 min read • Read on X
Muslim students - the uni environment can cause us to lower our guard with regards to interactions with the opposite sex, but we must keep our guard up. Attraction and crushes feel very real (and can be painful)...
Some day you will, in shā Allāh, be happily married to someone you love, who is good for your dīn and worthy of building a family with. Until then, protect yourself and your heart from the pain of harām relationships and everything that can lead to them...
Actively avoid situations that ignite desires. By, for example, not freely mixing with the opposite sex, not being in seclusion with your professor (of the opposite sex), not listening to lewd lyrics, and lowering your gaze. Islam gave us these guidelines for our own protection.
To read more advice to Muslim students, read my article:

"Muslim Students – Be a Force to Be Reckoned With"
islam21c.com/islamic-though…

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Advice for parents of Muslim girls starting secondary school:

🧕🏽🧕🏻🧕🏿 When your daughter starts secondary school, if she doesn’t already wear hijab, it’s a good time to start from day 1 of secondary school.
Why? Because many girls find it really hard to start wearing it later once their friends at school know them as non-hijabis.
And they will probably reach puberty at some point during secondary and it will be obligatory for them, so it makes the transition easier.
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How I brought my children up with Arabic as one of their languages - despite not being an Arab.

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Arabic is not my first language. I grew up reading the Qur'an & not understanding it until I was 16 and went to Egypt to learn Classical Arabic. So how did my kids learn Arabic?

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Children have the propensity to learn languages like a native until they are around 12 years old, when their brains change modes and certain types of language acquisition and pronunciation become harder. Children learn languages through osmosis - essentially immersion.
So first of all I recited Qur'an to my child (having studied Qur'an recitation myself) till they began memorising Qur'an themselves. Apart from the blessings of learning Qur'an, this meant my child's brain was becoming used to Arabic sounds and cadence.
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@GoldingBF Young and elderly English people are embracing Islam.
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Girls in the West are groomed away from the protection of their fathers and menfolk. They have to fend for themselves as soon as they mature. When a man shows a modicum of protective jealousy or sets standards, he is shamed. This opens girls up to abuse.
“Are you saying all men are predators?”

No. But good men have to protect women from the predatory men. When a society tells men that women don’t need them, they don’t need their protection or guardianship…the wolves in that society have a banquet.
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