It's very rare that #jjho is wrong, but if you can't tolerate someone leaving a water glass by the bed, I'm afraid you must live alone. And no, you cannot go around taking it to the kitchen yourself and sighing.
If this were dirty laundry all over the floor, or a sink full of dishes, then maybe. But a glass of water isn't dirty. It's just wet. It can't smell, it can't crust. The clutter person and the tidy person must *compromise*. A glass of water is the least the latter must tolerate.
Stop monitoring your partner's water glass! Eyes on your own paper.

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I want to talk about producers for a minute. Specifically, producers of roundtables like @pchh, whose jobs are maybe less understood than producers of narrative shows that involve extensive sound design and scripting.
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