No matter how much you whinge about leaving the country, only a few eventually leaves ergo, the onus is on us to change ourselves (do a Jihad on our souls) regarding how we have contributed to the mess bedevilling our country.
A lot of people who need to clean the Augean stables in their various abodes bloviate about how unfair our leaders are; makes you wonder whether our leaders are Martians.
Whether we like it or not, most of us will never leave Nigeria until our deaths.
Rather than curse every time, do your bit while saying a prayer for our leaders (yes, a lot of people are sceptical about the power of prayers but it doesn't hurt to say them).
As Muslims, we all know the Prophet's mandate on how to foster a healthy society.
Y'all can't keep engaging in perfidy yet, expect the country to be in pristine condition.
You can't give what we don't have and this applies to every Nigerian.
I don't have the solution but little and consistent acts would make a marked difference.
1/ Shaytan doesn’t drag you into sin. He whispers. He doesn’t scream. He suggests. He doesn’t push. He invites. Gently, strategically, patiently.
2/ He doesn’t say: “Disobey Allah.” He says: “Don’t you want something more?” And then he decorates sin, making it look… good.
Justified. Harmless.
3/Let us look at the life of Prophet Adam. Shaytan didn’t say, "Disobey Allah."
Instead he whispered, "‘O Adam, shall I show you the Tree of Immortality and a kingdom that never decays?’” (Qur’an 20:120)
4/ Shaytan sold him a dream: Immortality. Power. Two ancient desires. And if you look around. We’re still chasing the same things today.
1 Every time you long for wealth, someone is begging Allah for health. Every time you wish for more, someone is wishing for just enough. Life is a constant reminder: blessings and trials are distributed with divine wisdom.
2 "And if you tried to count Allah’s favors, you could never enumerate them. Truly, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful." (Qur'an 16:18) We often count our problems. But we rarely count our blessings.
3 When you drive a fancy car, somewhere, someone dies in a car crash.
When a mansion rises from the earth, somewhere, a grave is dug beneath it. Every joy we celebrate coexists with another’s grief. Such is the balance of dunya (this world).
You asked Allah for patience, for courage, for success...
But what if the hardship you’re facing is the answer?
A thread on how Allah responds, not always by changing your life, but by changing you.
1/ Out of the trillions of souls never brought into existence, Allah chose you, to live, to strive, to experience, to grow. That alone is a sign of profound purpose. "And I did not create the jinn and mankind except to worship Me." (Qur'an 51:56)
2/ When you ask Allah for patience (sabr), He may not simply hand you calmness. He sends you moments that stretch you, test you so you become patient. "Indeed, Allah is with the patient." (Qur'an 2:153)
1/ So, I had this deeply thought-provoking conversation with a good friend of mine recently. I won't call her a feminist but she is really pro-women, and we got talking about something I’ve been observing.
I asked her, “I notice that some Muslim women seem to regress in their Imaan whenever they co-opt feminism. Why do you think that is? It’s concerning, TBH.”
Her response really struck me.
2/ She said, “You’re not imagining it. I’ve noticed it, too, even in myself.
And it’s a struggle. But let me tell you this: a lot of Muslim men contribute to this regression.”
I asked her to explain, and what she shared opened my eyes in ways I didn’t expect.
1/ To my sisters chasing dreams—whether on social media, in coaching, building a brand, or climbing the corporate ladder—this is from the heart:
If your growth in the world is coming at the cost of your iman, pause and pay attention.
2/ Compromise doesn’t happen overnight. It’s gradual, a step here, a step there.
It starts small:
\- Delayed salah for “just one more post.”
\- A hijab shrinking, earrings showing, or strands of hair slipping out.
\- A “networking” happy hour you attend but don’t drink.
3/ You invest hours and dollars into personal development, but Islamic classes? Too hard to fit in.
You consume books and podcasts about “enlightenment,” yet neglect the profound wisdom of your own faith.
And your connection to the Muslim community? Slowly disappearing.
People often go through a phase of religiosity and piety, which is then followed by a burn out period. For example, for a couple of weeks - you found it incredibly easy to get up at night and pray Qiyam, but now you feel lazy to get out of bed.
Don’t worry, this is natural & very common.
For the Prophet ﷺ said: “Verily, the iman of one of you will wear out within him, just as a shirt becomes worn out, so ask Allah to renew iman in your hearts.”, and someone asked, “O Messenger of Allah, how do we renew our iman?”
and he ﷺ responded: “Increase in saying La ilaha ila Allah.” [musnad ahmad]
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There is a couple of things you can do to improve this:
• (1) As mentioned, you should repeat “La ilaha ila Allah” whenever you feel this way, and you should do so sincerely from your heart.