When I had mine it was my 35th birthday. I was on a business trip in Indianapolis. I remember being in the bathroom, bleeding and crying and thinking it was the worst moment of my life. And it was. I’d never felt so alone.
For weeks afterward I struggled with this bizarre idea that I’d done something wrong. Even though I had a perfectly healthy five year old boy, I felt ashamed. As if I was broken somehow.
For days, as women comforted me with their own stories of loss, I kept wondering why.
Everyone had a story. But no one had ever whispered a word until I became part of this secret club I never wanted to be a member of.
I understand we each grieve the way we know how, but the silence made it feel shameful. Why don’t we allow ourselves to rage?
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Utah is ranked bottom of the nation for equal pay, education & air quality. They ban books, abortion & gender affirming care. Utah routinely engages in censorship of its own citizens. It is a dangerous place to live for LGBTQ people, women, and children.
In high school in the 90s my first job that wasn’t working for my parents (I’d worked for them starting at 12) was behind the meat counter at a local grocery.
I wanted to stock shelves but the owner never hired girls to stock shelves.
I was 15.
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(2) It was a very small NH town. If you were a kid and you wanted a job, this was where you worked. Period.
Once I started I realized the manager of the meat department was an utter misogynistic asshole. Dave loved the power trip of controlling and taunting young girls.
(3) When you were the new girl the rule was you cleaned the meat room every night. It was a horrible job washing away all the blood & guts & sanitizing it.
The new girl cleaned it every shift until it was done correctly.
Who decided when you’d done it correctly? Dave did.
2: Fetterman, with the unequivocally support of family, colleagues, and constituents, checks himself into Walter Reed to seek treatment for depression.
1: The humiliation fest continues as McCarthy loses 11th round of voting in bid to become speaker. It’s the longest the House has taken to determine a speaker in 164 years.
1: Kevin McCarthy fails to secure the House speaker spot, cementing the first time in a 100 years a speaker has proceeded to multiple rounds of voting.
3: Amber McLaughlin will become the first openly transgender person to be executed in the US – unless Missouri’s governor, Mike Parson, grants clemency and puts a stop to the planned lethal injection.