A bad trigger for me is when someone I don't know (or even people I do know tbh) call me any sort of pet name/hypocorism (hun, babe, sweetie, love, dear, etc.) like it makes me viscerally ill but I feel so bad b/c for the most part the ppl who do this aren't being gross
mostly they're being friendly and I hate that like the minute they use a pet name/term of endearment I immediately want nothing more than to end the conversation/interaction. It's like not their fault at all, and yet it's....how I am :/
It's like I wish there was a nice way to say "hey person on Twitter you seem really cool and good-intentioned by you just called me "hun" so now I want to block you immediately"
although to be fair I don't mind I guess more masculine terms of endearment? Like I don't mind being called "friend," "pal," "buddy," for whatever reason
Like I'm super comfortable with "masculine" (I don't know a better word) terms of familiarity and I use them too, for other people so I guess it's not all trauma-related, some of it is gender stuff too
Ugh I guess I just prefer being talked to like I'm in some sleazy 1950s pool hall with some friends who are also small-time mob enforcers

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