To say I was annoyed by this was an understatement. I try to keep things professional in professional settings. However y’all are used to me and you know I had several carefully selected swear words I would have preferred to use in my response.
And this is the shit we’re talking about when we talk about always having to correct and hold on and wait our turn and never get to say our peace because we always have to be concerned about the backlash.

So I’m just gonna say it:

Fuck her and her need to clutch her pearls
Fuck her need to center herself because for roughly 3 hours in the MILLIONS OF HOURS PER YEAR that white voices are heard she had to hear about an experience that didn’t apply to her. Fuck her audacity in sharing that opinion.
Fuck the fact that she felt comfortable in saying it because she knew nobody was going to stop her. Fuck the fact that people don’t shut that shit down when they see it even when they’re warned that it has been said because they don’t want to be uncomfortable.
And fuck the fact that WE are expected to be cool with being uncomfortable just because we ALWAYS are.
And now that I’ve gotten my swear words out about it - I never thought those screenshots would make it over here but since they’re here I’m certainly going to speak on it - I can now go get some dinner.

Don’t bring that racist bullshit to my yard.

Off to make tacos.

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