Random photo and story time! Including possibly helpful information if you’re around my age and planning to have kids for the first time. In 6 days my kiddo is going to turn 11! Here’s our first picture together
If it looks like he’s in an incubator it’s because he is. It’s called an isolette. Image
He was born at 27 weeks, 3 months early. Stayed over 3 and a half months in the NICU after he was born. His due date was to be a Pisces/aqua, but he decided to come when the sun was in Sag and the moon was in Aries. (He still likes to do things early, and to be first lol)
He is my little firelight. Full of inspiration and never ending adventure. (He is Jupiter and Sun dominant, if that explains his personality lol) and he is EVER so kind. He almost didn’t make it, and his road was rough but he’s my lil trooper. Well nowadays my big trooper.
He’s almost as big as me and already has bigger feet. (And I have big feet lol) He’s also kind of a genius. Was always a “good baby”. Easygoing nature. In touch with his feels. Homeschooling is a breeze. I am seriously #blessed.
Anyway. For the informative part. We didn’t know why he came early, just that my cervix had given out. HOWEVER. In the past few years I’ve been told by doctors that I actually barely have any cervix 😕 and it’s because of biopsies I had as a teen
So twice I’ve been told now, that “I’m the reason they don’t do that anymore”. Basically, in the early 2000’s, the standard was once you got your period or became sexually actively you went to the gyno to start getting Pap smears. I had a couple come back as irregular, and
had a couple of cervical biopsies done. (Horrible experience I don’t recommend) as a teenager. NOW they know, they ppl under 18 will have paps like that and it’s NORMAL. So they don’t even do paps till 18 now. And they learned from ppl like me. 😬 SO. If this was also you...
Not to scare you or anything. But it’s good to be informed. If I had have known, I might have been able to get the cervical stitches early on, and bed rest and made it to full term. Nobody expects to go into preterm labor. Kiddo was my Black Friday surprise but if I had known
Maybe I could’ve cooked my lil turkey a lil longer lol. November is prematurity awareness month and it’s preemie awareness week. So here’s some awareness! Premature birth happens and it’s one of those things where you’d never guess it could happen to you. Your body is yours!
And you have the right to be informed and to make informed decisions! If kiddo hadn’t have been early, I might be able to have more kids (if I wanted lol) but due to his emergency birth, my baby machine is kinda 💩’d out lol. But maybe I can save you the trauma and struggle 🤍

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You’re not gunna manifest more disabled by ignoring the disabled. And find perfection by becoming not disabled. I’m sry manifesting folx but that’s not how it works for everyone lol. Let disabled people exist. Simply put.
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You deserve to feel better and get care 🤍
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It’s wild how the universe respects those boundaries once u consciously set them ☺️
Unless you are looking to learn how to live more consciously and with more kindness and care. Because that’s a conscious act that I’m ready & willing to assist in. But i’m no longer here to join in with the song of suffering. We’ve heard enough of that tune. 🚫SufferingGame™️🚫
I will gladly sing of how I found light in my own suffering. But the focus isn’t that, ya dig? The pain is not the focus. Healing is. I’m not afraid to go into the pain for a minute to show it. But we don’t stay there. Not if we don’t have to. No sir-ee, not in 2020.
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We call saturn daddy but also? The 🌞too
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