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12 Jan, 7 tweets, 2 min read
Kadang²...statement warga² feminis ni yg buat aku lemah semangat. They said perempuan kena ada income sendiri, kena itu, kena ini sebab lelaki ni tak boleh percaya sangat.

Until at some point..rasa useless gila sebab aku still student and jobless.
Once i told someone that i planned to have a child when i have 1k extra per month. But suddenly i got pregnant and she be like..
"Lah, sembang kata nak ada 1k lebih tiap bulan"

Mf didnt even think about my feelings.
Then i started to have mental breakdown everytime i got only rm100 in my account (tapi taknak mintak duit kat laki)

Padahal my husb belanja sakan sebab he thought i have my own money. That part i knew he has a lot of extra money thats why he didnt even worry about having a baby.
Then i stopped reading all the articles about how women are supposed to be strong & independent & have their own income.

Yes we do need to be strong, independent, & have our own income. But dont let that mindset ruin you.
Have faith in your partner too. Always make dua that Allah wont change his love towards you. Make dua that both of you will build a happy family. Make dua that Allah protect your family from evil.

We have to balance our dunia and akhirat.
In the meantime, dont give up looking for any job that suits you as a mother, a wife, a daughter. So you can have your own financial freedom.

Its not wrong to depend on your husband. Its his duty to provide for your family. Dont ever feel guilty about that.
Ingat, rezeki anak² bukan setakat dekat duit. Having a great mom and dad is also rezeki.

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13 Jan
Meh aku nak share pengalaman sepanjang aku mengandung yg pertama kali ini.
Yang aku harap orang bagi tau aku before aku mengandung.
1. Jangan biar perut kosong awal² mengandung kalau takmo muntah².
Makan snek macam buah ke, kacang² ke. Asalkan alas perut.
2. Seluar mengandung tu selesa sampai 4 ke 5 bulan je sebab baby bump tu masih comel. Start 6 bulan dah sakit hati pakai seluar sebab susah nak angkat kaki.
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