Practice your love language on yourself.
WORDS OF AFFIRMATION: speak positive, encouraging and edifying words over yourself. Call yourself the things that God has called you.

Tell yourself things like:
"I am fearfully and wonderfully made by a good, good Father."

"I am anointed. Nothing dies in my hands."

GIVING OF GIFTS: as often as you can afford to, buy yourself something(s) you like. You don't have to wait for someone to buy you stuff.

You can use it as a way to reward and encourage yourself when you accomplish a task/goal.
QUALITY TIME: spend time with the Lord often, without the presence of another human. Turn off your phone, TV, find a quiet space and just bask in His presence. You could have worship music playing in the background.

We discover who we truly are, the closer we get to the Lord.
ACTS OF SERVICE: this could look like something as simple as cleaning your room, doing your laundry, organizing your wardrobe, cooking yourself a meal you really enjoy (if you like cooking), or even getting yourself a new haircut/hairstyle.

Do nice things for yourself.
PHYSICAL TOUCH: This looks like showing your body KINDNESS by exercising, eating healthy, moisturing, treating yourself to a mani/pedi or a spa session, drinking lots of water...etc.

Just take care of this temple that God has given you.

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22 Feb
My first introduction to lesbianism was when I was 7 or 8.

It was with the neighbour's kids.

It first started with the normal "mummy and daddy" plays and before we knew it, we were getting under sheets and touching ourselves inappropriately.
This was also how my struggle with masturbation and pornography began.

Our parents would let us play with the kids in the compound and, as long as there were no physical injuries or anything of that sort, they let us play "unsupervised."
They were probably thinking "they are just children. What harm could possibly be done?"

I do not blame them at all. Because when they were young like we were at that age, the only kinds of play they knew involved stones, catapults, singing etc.

No one was getting under sheets.
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