From a primal standpoint, men are meant to be polygamous.
Should they exercise being polygamous? Probably not.
Why?
Destabilizes single men in society.
Fragments relationship with family.
Selects weak, insecure women to mate with.
When a man cheats, he is acting polygamous.
When a man cheats, he is simply giving in to his primal urges. It's called "cheating" because to avoid emotional turmoil, he chooses to hide it from his partner.
I see cheating and seeking polygamy the same.
The difference is consent & informing the partner.
Its in EVERY mans mind; the experience of being with multiple women.
But not every man acts on it. They have refined themselves to civility and evolved from their animal instinct.
I think men who can suppress this natural desire have a strong character.
If my son cheats tomorrow, I will not shame & condemn him.
I will first, prevent the mother from ever knowing. Then I would tell him to make sure his partner would never find out.
Then I will ask him what he wants in life now that he has experienced being with multiple women:
If he can't help himself & enjoyed the experience, then I will tell him to break up with his partner and to truthfully communicate with woman; that you can't commit.
If he wants to refine himself & cares about family, then he will never experience this again.
A buried secret.
Cheating for men is primal, linked to polygamy.
Cheating for women is NOT primal.
I condemn cheating for anyone, but these are facts and it is why men cheat more than women,
and also why it's easier to forgive men than women.
The origination of cheating is the reason why
men can cheat and still love their woman.
But when women cheat, the love is over with their man.
It's part of the natural urges for men. And those with impulse control and a well developed neocortex,
will commit to one woman.
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I’ll always advocate for a career over a good husband.
Whether it’s my daughter, or girlfriend.
Your statistical probability of finding a good husband is far lower than the probability of having a career that can provide you a degree of independence.
This is common sense that conservatives and the red pill fail to understand.
You are outright taking a chance on destroying your daughters life by putting her at the mercy of a man without any foot to stand on.
Without any means to look after herself.
I would like to think that there are more good men out there than there are bad,
but none of us know anything about ourselves unless we are in a position of power to exploit and abuse.