Arrogant, ignorant and tiresome men never cease. If I had a penny for every time a man had spoken to me like this.
This is in no way to hijack Jennifer's story, but if you want to know how it is to be spoken like that, in a different galaxy, I was waiting for the removal van to move us into a new flat and a man parked in the space started to get a suitcase out. And loads of suit bags.
I said, I'm really sorry but you can't park here right now, because we've applied for the removal van and everything. I pointed to the lamp post with the sign on it. He said, 'Fuck off little girl.' And marched off.
Fuck off little girl. Never forgotten it. Turned out he was using the space to go for 2 weeks skiing. I was so angry I went to the pound shop and bought the great big tub of vaseline for 2.40 (I even remember the price) and I fucked that car up every single morning for 2 weeks.
Vaseline in the locks, under the window wipers, under all the handles. Every day, I invented something new that wasn't criminal damage. By the end I had coated all the windows in vaseline and stuck newspaper sheets down on them, really neatly. It was a work of art.
Final morning, I put a dead houseplant in a pot on top of the driver's side, and waited. Like a fox watching the henhouse. Money cannot buy what his face looked like, even now. And the calling in desperation for the recovery man, and the fury. LIKE SUCKING DOWN AMBROSIA M8.
Clearly, I am not a vengeful person, but
So now whenever a man talks to me, or any other woman, like that in a professional capacity, I always remember laying on those free newsheets from the station with the squeegee, and that poor dead plant. And the marvels of vaseline. And how I laughed for days and days and days.
We shouldn't spend our lives appeasing these men. It's a nonsense. There are millions of very decent people out there who would do their jobs, better, with some grace.

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