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Apr 25, 2021 12 tweets 4 min read Read on X
10 "Body Language" Signs to Read People under 5 seconds!

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1. Crossed Arms

It's survival reaction to protect the vital organs in the torso. Crossed arms means person is anxious, feels threatened or being submissive.
2. Arms over head

It shows confidence and relaxed gesture. The person is open and being dominant.
3. Lying eyes

If a person's eyes looks top right, he probably lying and imagining or constructing images never seen before.
4. Crossed legs

If the legs are crossed and the foot on top is pointing toward you, the person is interested. If the foot is in the other direction, he's protecting himself.
5. Feet pointing outward while standing

If the person's one feet is pointing outward while talking, subconsciously he wants to leave.
6. Scratching head, knee or arm or nose

Scratching a body part is a clear indicator of stress. He feels uncomfortable and uneasy.
7. Hands touching neck, adjusting the tie, playing with neckpieces.

Neck is a vulnerable part. And under threat or stress, people try to soooth themselves by touching those areas.
8. Hand over hips

A clear territorial sign. The person is being dominant, confident and aggressive.
9. Raised eyebrows, Lines on forehead

Clear sign of surprise, worry or fear.
10. Clenched jaw, pursed lips

Tell tale sign of disapproval, stress and distrust.
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