10 "Body Language" Signs to Read People under 5 seconds!
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1. Crossed Arms
It's survival reaction to protect the vital organs in the torso. Crossed arms means person is anxious, feels threatened or being submissive.
2. Arms over head
It shows confidence and relaxed gesture. The person is open and being dominant.
3. Lying eyes
If a person's eyes looks top right, he probably lying and imagining or constructing images never seen before.
4. Crossed legs
If the legs are crossed and the foot on top is pointing toward you, the person is interested. If the foot is in the other direction, he's protecting himself.
5. Feet pointing outward while standing
If the person's one feet is pointing outward while talking, subconsciously he wants to leave.
6. Scratching head, knee or arm or nose
Scratching a body part is a clear indicator of stress. He feels uncomfortable and uneasy.
7. Hands touching neck, adjusting the tie, playing with neckpieces.
Neck is a vulnerable part. And under threat or stress, people try to soooth themselves by touching those areas.
8. Hand over hips
A clear territorial sign. The person is being dominant, confident and aggressive.
9. Raised eyebrows, Lines on forehead
Clear sign of surprise, worry or fear.
10. Clenched jaw, pursed lips
Tell tale sign of disapproval, stress and distrust.
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Introverts, you’re not lazy, you’re emotionally exhausted from years of self-abandonment.
Here’s why it happens and how to heal yourself:
1. Emotional exhaustion is:
- Struggling to get out of bed even after 8 hours of sleep
- Feeling tired after socializing even with people you love
- Constantly pushing through, even when you're drained
You’re not lazy, you’re burnt out from constantly betraying your own needs.
2. Where does this come from?
It often starts in childhood:
- Growing up in homes where rest was seen as weakness
- Being praised for being “easy” and “low-maintenance”
- Learning that expressing needs made you a burden
So, you learned to suppress your needs to survive.
Introverts, you’re always the helper because no one ever helped you.
This is what that does to your nervous system and how to heal yourself:
1. When you're always the helper, it's not from abundance, it's from survival.
You learned early on that your value came from what you could give, not who you were.
So... you became the one who never needed help.
And always gave it.
2. How it become a pattern?
- Maybe no one asked how you were doing
- Maybe your sadness made others uncomfortable
- Maybe you were the “strong one” in a house that was falling apart