So confused atm

My mom tried to Skype me with no warning in the middle of a d&d session and I blocked the call and told her I was busy with friends

Called her back during a break to see what she needed
She was drunk(?) and/or asleep(?) and wanted me to talk to someone (her?) about using inclusive language in D&I sessions at her workplace which I soooo don't care about

Now I'm confused and mildly annoyed since the conversation just went in a circle
It's kind of a drag to be the only transgender person people know sometimes because they want to just talk to you about random trans stuff all the time for pointless and annoying reasons, even if well-intentioned
We had like an hour conversation on Skype about this earlier and like... one of the reasons I don't want to be anywhere near D&I corporate status signaling bullshit is I find it useless and often counterproductive (for everyone)

And it irritates me to be sucked back near it
I don't care if the D&I sessions use inclusive language or whatever at any particular workplace

Not my mission to fix corporate America's clueless status signaling spending 😑

There is no hope of that
I'm SLIGHTLY more irritated about this than usual because my mom earlier made the claim that "no one really cares what gender anyone is if the work gets done" and like well-meaning statements like that that are blind to the real situation (which is complex, nuanced) is tiresome
So many people with their own agendas and POV want to make claims about trans people to validate their own beliefs/assumptions or share bad information (even if well intentioned) and just have no clue whether what they're saying is true or not

It's exhausting
And this happens on both sides of the political spectrum and just reminds me that people love to talk and be badly informed

And I find it EXTREMELY tiresome and am going back to playing D&D

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