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Jun 9, 2021 12 tweets 1 min read Read on X
Peace to everyone in the first shock of grief tonight.
Peace to everyone waking up this morning sad and bewildered.
Peace to those whose grief is morphing into anger, into fear, and back to bewilderment.
Peace to those who momentarily forget, then feel guilty for forgetting.
Peace to those wondering if knowing why would make them feel better, or worse.
Peace to those who want to burn it all down to bring them back.
Peace to those for whom this grief is all too familiar.
Peace to those who work, or watch, or weep this night.
Peace to those who couldn't sleep.
Peace to those who are out of words, but still want to stand in this circle.
Peace to those whose grief is complicated.
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