@cgraw1 For one shift in Emergency, my initial meeting with a man who was drunk & verbally abusive needing restraint with previous staff on day shift, I walked in to have him swear and demand apple juice. Was still restrained. I replied, he needed to not swear, use the word, 'please' 1/2
@cgraw1 if he wanted anything and that I was his nurse for the shift - 12 hrs. He was in a private room due to being so disruptive. I told him to think about what I had said, since he was a lot more sober than on admission hours before and I'd return in five minutes. I did make sure 2/3
@cgraw1 to return in those 5 minutes and he said, 'I'd like some apple juice, please." So, my setting boundaries was working well as I had a plan for this middle aged man. During the 5 minutes, I had a look through notes written for his previous admissions and his old chart was 3/4
@cgraw1 about 3 inches high - a huge chart in comparison to others and most admissions were due to his being drunk and he was always very aggressive and treating staff with verbal and even physical abuse. When I had some time a bit later, as I had other patients to care for as well, 4/5
@cgraw1 he was still awake and wanted his arms released from the restraints (please was in the request too) and so I said I expected him to behave respectfully toward me if I untied one of his arms. His legs were restrained too as he had been known to try and kick staff. I had brought5/6
@cgraw1 in the room his old chart. When I told him this was all his admissions and as I had read a lot of the notes, it was obvious his drinking was making him have these admissions and that with each one he was disruptive and abusive. He said he had no idea as he didn't remember 6/7
@cgraw1 being so drunk and having blackouts. I even read some of the notes by nurses about his behaviour, not to shame him but to give him a reality check as to this was his life and behaviour being addicted to alcohol. He told me he'd had some 'times' in his life when he was sober 7/8
@cgraw1 and most recently over 3 years sober. I asked him how he did this and he said going to AA was what made the difference. I suggested he consider this as a choice again. Then I left him for a few hours so he could sleep. In the early morning, he was totally sober, cooperative 8/9
@cgraw1 and I asked him what he thought about going back to AA, since it had helped him the first time. He said it sounded like a good idea. I then told him I'd found a meeting for 8 am, since he was being discharged in the morning and that I had made arrangements for him to have a 9/10
@cgraw1 taxi credit to that meeting as it was in his neighbourhood. he said he would go there. I then gave him a chance to wash up, provided him with some clothing from the closet of free clothes since his were soiled. He was a different man by 7 am. I saw him into the cab. Often 10/11
@cgraw1 have thought of him and wondered if that time was the turning point for him after having the 12 hours being my patient. I did go home thinking of the complex work as an RN we often do with patients of which the public are very unaware.
@cgraw1 Would appreciate an unroll, please and thank you for this about this important issue of alcoholism and it's impact often on the healthcare system. @UnrollHelper

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