Three days ago, a woman Uma was found badly burnt on a road near Kanpur. She told police it was done by her husband Arif. She is still fighting for her life in hospital

Here’s her story:

Uma and Arif hail from Sesa village in Jhansi district of UP. They eloped in May 2018+
Her father Munnilal filed a case. Arif was booked for kidnapping and under SC/ST Act (Uma is from dhobi jaati). Uma told court she had eloped willingly, had converted and done “court marriage” with Arif in August 2018. Police filed final report in September 2018
The Jhansi district court however gave its verdict only recently - Feb 2021, while admitting that the case has got quite delayed in the court. It quashed the case against Arif
Munnilal however told me that Arif had left Uma in 2018 itself. Initially both went to Gujarat, but Arif soon dropped Uma at her elder sister’s house in Ajnara (about 50 km from Sesa). He began ignoring her. It took quite some time for Uma to realise Arif has left her
Munnilal says that a month or two ago, Arif married another woman in Gujarat. This triggered a fight between Arif and Uma. The recent attack, allegedly by Arif, is linked to that, as per Munnilal, who keeps in touch with Uma only through his elder sister
Initially, Uma lived with her sister, who was already married when she eloped. Later, she rented a place near her sister’s house and began working. Uma has not returned to her own village, Sesa, even once since she eloped.
Here is my report on the case:…

• • •

Missing some Tweet in this thread? You can try to force a refresh

Keep Current with Swati Goel Sharma

Swati Goel Sharma Profile picture

Stay in touch and get notified when new unrolls are available from this author!

Read all threads

This Thread may be Removed Anytime!


Twitter may remove this content at anytime! Save it as PDF for later use!

Try unrolling a thread yourself!

how to unroll video
  1. Follow @ThreadReaderApp to mention us!

  2. From a Twitter thread mention us with a keyword "unroll"
@threadreaderapp unroll

Practice here first or read more on our help page!

More from @swati_gs

4 Jul
A 22-year-old woman from Bulandshahr filed an FIR this week, accusing a man of hiding his religious identity ("Intaak posed as Aman Sharma"), making sexual relationship on false promise of marriage, and blackmailing her with her sexual videos

A @sewanyaya member met her today
She narrated her statement. She said she learnt of his real name and identity only some weeks ago when he took her to a madrassa for conversion. Statement in FIR says that when caught, he hurled casteist slurs at her and went on to have nikah with someone else. The woman is an SC
The man has been arrested on the basis of several charges levelled by her. The woman, who never went to college, told us she wants to learn a skill to be self-reliant. She needs money to do some vocational course locally

@sewanyaya will help her do that and start life afresh
Read 5 tweets
29 Jun
Lessons from the Kashmir Sikh woman case: When predatory Da’wah (proselytising) is rampant and happening within the current legal framework, courts won’t save you. Neither will defensive politics

It has to be countered with street power, decisiveness, community strength, money +
Huge respect for Sikh community for the way they countered the menace: They gathered, identified the problem for what it is, called it ‘love jihad’, questioned the morals of clerics, got the woman’s custody despite police, married her without delay. She is now on her way abroad +
All this requires network and resources, along with strong resolve that doesn’t buckle under the pressure of so-called feminists, human right activists and ‘liberal’ media (not that they faced their onslaught, but still). They are clear that they have ‘saved’ their woman +
Read 7 tweets
29 Jun
You have followed the Kashmir Sikh woman case, where her family somehow got her back from the court and married her to a Sikh man within 2-3 days
Different families use different ways to keep their women within the community. This is how Saddam from UP did it:
Saddam’s sister eloped with a fellow villager named Monu, a Hindu. The couple went to Mumbai and married. After a few years, they visited their village in Jan 2019. Saddam and his father approached her and asked her to leave Monu. She didn’t. The couple returned to Mumbai
Saddam decided he must avenge it, or it could become a trend. He hired a contract killer, Mahiuddin, who barged into Monu’s house on the night of 25 Feb. He slit the throats of Monu’s father Jagram, elder brother Raju, younger sister Gudiya.
Read 4 tweets
29 Jun
The adult Sikh woman who had eloped & told court she had wilfully converted, was sent to her family by police after protests from Sikh community. She is now being married to a Sikh man.
If any Hindutva group did it with a Hindu woman, Leftist-Islamists would have gone berserk
Now no feminists are crying 'don't treat women as chattel' and no secularists are crying 'Islamophobia'. In this case, the Sikh community has done everything and more than what Hindutva groups do when faced with a similar situation
- chants of "love jihad", declaring own daughter as mentally unstable, demanding anti-conversion law, asking maulvis to tame Muslim men, taking to streets over a consensual interfaith relationship, hurriedly marrying off the woman at 18...
Read 4 tweets
28 Jun
Most families whose adult daughters elope, covert and have nikah, try to get her back before the court legally allows her to go with the man. They begin by trying to show her as a minor and mentally-unstable, and file FIR with kidnapping charges. When the police track her and +
Bring her to police station, the family tries hard to get her custody before her statement to the magistrate (164), hoping to convince her to not go. That’s not due process, as the police are required to keep her in a shelter home and record her statement as soon as they can +
But I have seen several cases where the policeman, sensitive to parents’ concerns, allows her to go with the parents. Sometimes the families are given a few hours, sometimes a day or two. But that’s a risk on the cop’s part, what if the family does honour killing?
Read 7 tweets
27 Jun
Well, that's "due process". The woman, who elopes/gets "kidnapped", is brought to the magistrate and, depending on her statement, is allowed to go with the party she chooses - her family or the man. The laws fully favour the woman's "consent"
The woman's family in such cases always asks for her custody for a few days, hoping they would convince her to give statement in their favour. But due to honour killings, court doesn't allow it. Even if recording of statement is delayed, she is kept in a shelter home
Of course, it doesn't matter to courts or police if the woman is later killed or made an ISIS bride. Preying on women of a certain identity and trapping them for conversion-nikah all happens within a legal framework
Read 5 tweets

Did Thread Reader help you today?

Support us! We are indie developers!

This site is made by just two indie developers on a laptop doing marketing, support and development! Read more about the story.

Become a Premium Member ($3/month or $30/year) and get exclusive features!

Become Premium

Too expensive? Make a small donation by buying us coffee ($5) or help with server cost ($10)

Donate via Paypal Become our Patreon

Thank you for your support!

Follow Us on Twitter!