If you fall under any of these, it shouldn't define your future. It only shows you the areas to work on.
Mama's boy
Here the mother oversteps her son's boundaries, makes all his decisions and forces him to be at her side always. This unhealthy attachment makes him struggle to be an independent adult.
The mother uses emotional blackmail to keep him in touch constantly.
As human beings, we're good at showing up and dealing with the many demands of the world. We do everything possible to live up to the world's expectations in terms of love, money, education, career, health, family, etc.
We can pull this off for decades without a crack. But one day, to our own surprise, we break. And this can take the form of depression, struggle with getting out of bed, refusing to eat or go outside.
The older you get, the more you see how real the Bible and the supernatural are. It's why the church is filled with older people who have lived their lives and have seen how difficult life is without God. They do everything possible to steer younger people in the...
right direction, But typical of young people, they see the faith as uncool and limiting - just as the older people once believed. And as young people, we want to live our lives first then go to God when we're old. But this is a trap that has been propagated across generations..
The young people who resisted God have no other spiritual presence to run to when life brings its many miseries. So they opt for money and pleasure, and make them their gods. It gives momentary peace and high and further binds them to it.
In the desperation to make money, we start multiple businesses that never take off. This keeps us on a desperation wheel for years, building and jumping on more than we can focus on hoping for the big break...
Once we can understand that no matter how appealing the next business model is, every model blooms from years of failure and iteration. It's criminal to believe that just one 1 month of work is all you need when...
the people selling you success blueprints spent years quietly failing and improving. It's a long journey for everyone, and only those who remain on a path will get there the fastest.