Unless you're chad, famous or a sociopath - you won't have multiple women in love with you at the same time

Unless you're a ridiculously beautiful and sweet woman - you won't ever marry an "elite high value man™"

Hypergamy and polygamy whilst complementary, are not sustainable
They are not sustainable, because they exclude the vast majority of the population.

Most men are by definition, not elite high value men.

Most women are not exceptionally beautiful and chaste, nor of the correct temperament and genetics to be marriageable for an elite man.
The role of religion in society, in large part, is to regulate the dysfunction that results from these instincts.

It forces the men who can have many women to pick one, and all the lame average woman who think they deserve a top 0.1% man to date a man at their own level.
So civilizational monogamy is probably the greatest gift of religion. It essentially ensures the vast majority of the population gets a mate, by curbing natural instincts and holding people accountable to their families and communities.

Atomised irreligiosity breaks this.
You won't "fix society" if you allow hypergamy and polygamy to run amok unchecked.

Without adequate social pressure, most women would rather die alone surrounded by cats, than date a man at or just above their own level - especially if a superior man used and chucked her before.
A woman who has had sex with top tier men thinks she is deserving of a top tier man for marriage and refuses to "lower her standards" - not realising that she never met those men's standards for marriage to begin with - hence why they're gone.

Men fuck women they wouldn't marry.
So women are not only naturally predisposed to feel entitled to the best for no logical reason whatsoever, irrespective of their own value and what they bring to the table, but are furthermore susceptible to even greater delusion when said men give them an oxytocin induced taste.
This is why the dating market, like so many markets, needs regulation.

When it's laissez-faire, the majority of people lose out whilst a few winners get more than their fill.

And society stops working properly when the majority of people are forever single or divorced.
Traditional Abrahamic religion of course, is that form of regulation.

Feminism is the antithesis, because it is anti-regulation. It promotes a free for all, which naturally means a lot of sex for a minority of men, and a dearth of loving committed relationships for most women.
You can, quite literally, trace the problems with the mating market today back to the absence of religion.

What other system regulates mating practices?


Doesn't matter how you feel about God or religion - that's irrelevant.

What's important is a functioning system.

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