I was misdiagnosed as bipolar as a teenager, heavily medicated, forced into hospitals and harmful 'professionals' which left me with serious trauma and never actually helped me feel better with any of my challenges.
It wasn't until realizing I was Autistic and ADHD, and then being on ADHD medication, that really changed my life. I have been on SO MANY medications for 'mental illness' and nothing has worked like ADHD medication has.
Doctors, professionals, etc are NOT immune to bias. The DSM has been modified many times, and still needs further modification. There is a big difference in what people understand about the brain vs the body. Science is ALWAYS a work in progress.
There are so many things that used to be called 'disorders', which we now know are just normal variations on being human. So, for people who want to live and die by what 'professionals' say, what's your excuse for the fact being gay and trans was considered a disorder?
Like, why is it that somehow the modern DSM is correct and all of the others were wrong? Could it be that there need to be changes made to the current DSM? Could it be that a lot of people have flawed ideas of what Autism, ADHD, etc actually are?
A truly good professional will actually listen to patients and humans who live with disability in their life, so they can learn to be better and do better for human beings. A true scientist ALWAYS wants to keep learning more.
Self diagnosis is valid. I would love everyone who WANTS an official diagnosis to have one - however, we have a fucked up medical system that makes it expensive and difficult, and tons of outdated knowledge and bias.
Look at the diagnostician that worked with my son a few years back. This woman not only was a diagnostician, but the parent of a disabled person. She was one of the WORST people I have ever encountered, and god only knows how many people she harmed in her years of working.
As a reminder: She gave my son an improper IQ test without my knowledge or permission, and gave him an impossibly low score and then his top diagnosis was 'intellectual disability', and because society is an ableist dungwaffle, everyone treated him as zero potential.
This is the kind of 'professional' people are saying you need to be seen by - yet SHE is the reason my son was miserable in school. She suggested he had no potential, no future and belonged in a home. I'm supposed to trust people like that?
There's nothing wrong with being intellectually disabled, but to me the whole concept of intellect and intelligence is so fucked up and horribly skewed, that society causes so much harm to people, especially disabled people, because of the concept of 'intelligence'.
Plus, when I was a teenager, and people were heavily medicating me, forcing me locked into rooms with 'professionals' that made me very uncomfortable, etc.. nobody EVER listened to me. NOBODY asked me what I wanted or how I felt.
I have seen far more HARM by 'professionals' than good. Now, I am very thankful to know good ones now. I have a great neurologist for my daughter. I have an amazing psychologist for myself, that I hope I never have to leave. I also have a great therapist.
But, all that being said - that is a reflection of my current privilege. Many people do not have the options to find quality professionals. People on here acting like you can walk into WalMart and pick yourself up a diagnosis, when it's extremely difficult.
Plus, being disabled, having major anxiety, being overwhelmed by paperwork, remembering appointments, PAYING for them, etc - that shit is hard for disabled people. It's fucking hard. Going to doctors is hard, exhausting and expensive.
To everyone out there being a judgmental sack of donkey shit toward other neurodivergent people; you need to knock it off. Check your privilege. If you want to help others, why don't you do the work instead of being an asshole.

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19 Sep
So, what IF someone who self-diagnosed as Autistic was wrong? What exactly is going to happen? It's not like 'officially' diagnosed Autistic people are being showered with endless support and acceptance, so what exactly is a self-diagnosed person harming? NOTHING.
People who realize they are Autistic do it because they've been searching for something. They've been trying to understand themselves, why they see the world the way they do and looking for community. Why is that a bad thing? Why is someone feeling at home in their skin, bad?
It's NOT bad, but what people don't like is that self-diagnosis puts the power in the hands of the people, instead of the elite few. People don't WANT disabled people to have their own power. People want to continue to control and deny disabled people.
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17 Sep
So, O was not happy with me last night after an encounter right before I was going to put him to bed. So, he went to my spouse and wanted HIM to put him to bed. He was trying to pull him up the stairs to do bedtime instead of me.
I am sorry he was annoyed with me for the necessary thing that happened, and we have already had our moment, but I loved seeing him express himself and his wants, and we switched kids for bedtime. Like, even if he was mad at me at the time, he's allowed, and he expressed it.
Sometimes my kids are going to get mad at me. They aren't always going to agree with me. That's allowed. They are human and they're allowed to disagree with their parents. They're allowed to disagree with other adults, too.
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16 Sep
If you aren't a nonspeaking Autistic, you simply cannot understand what it is like to be one. I am Autistic & I will never FULLY understand what it's like to have such a strong body/mind mismatch like what my son has. We have a lot of commonalities, but we aren't the SAME.
It has been a journey to try and understand. Like, I always knew he was this amazing fire inside, and he's certainly proven it, but it doesn't mean I know what it's like for him to live with his body and brain every single day.
And, I'm not trying to vilify it, but I know he's expressed he just doesn't know why his body reacts in certain ways at times. I know he gets frustrated when he cannot express himself the way he wants to at times. That's why I am really trying to give him as much as I can.
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14 Sep
I live in this really weird in between spot that not a lot of people live in. I grew up in extreme poverty, and now I am middle class. I live in a 'nice' neighborhood in a 'nice' house, that we happened to get a killer deal on at the time.
I normally feel like I don't belong here. I am still the poor girl that I grew up as, inside. Yet, I spend time with people who have money, and even if they had less growing up, not many people can relate to what I went through and how that trauma affected me.
It's hard for me to feel comfortable with people who've never experienced oppression of some sort. That's why pretty much all my friends are traumatized, disabled or both. Plus, a lot of immigrants and BIPOC. Those people are the people I feel safe with.
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13 Sep
When people talk about their Autistic, or otherwise disabled children, they often bring up 'independence'. But, we need to shift from the idea of 'independence' to 'autonomy'. By providing support to O via typing, he has more AUTONOMY, and therefore a higher quality of life.
If I simply said 'well, he has to be fully independent' that reduces his quality of life, because he wouldn't be able to fully communicate the nuance of wants and needs he has. Independence is a false concept, anyway. Most people aren't ever 'fully independent'.
But for some reason, with disabled people in particular, there is an obsession with independence and bootstrapping. And, then we leave people struggling so hard that they really have no actual control over their lives, because they can't get that first step up.
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12 Sep
Disabled children need to learn how to identify, accept and seek support for their needs.

Disabled adults need continued acceptance AND support.

Disability doesn't magically go away at age 18.
Give me a complex problem, a thick, verbose book, anything that I can sit down with by myself and figure out - sure, I can do that all day long.

Shopping, parties, paperwork, going to the dentist, all of that shit? Overwhelming as fuck. It's HARD.
So many things that are supposedly 'easy' or 'routine' for people are hard. And, if you say they're hard, people look down on you for it. But, it is hard. Do you know how many times in a grocery store, it felt like I was suffocating and I wanted to lay down?
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