A whole lot of people in this country have been fighting for justice since they were born. Their fights aren’t just organized political action. Most of their battles involve going to work or school or walking down a street knowing just existing makes them a target.
They endure losses all the time. But they don’t have a choice except to wake up and keep fighting and existing.

Right now they’re being attacked just for teaching and talking about those battles.
If your instinct is to center the other side, it doesn’t matter how good you think your intentions are — you are not acting like their ally. If, on top of that, your instinct is to argue with them when they push back, who do you actually stand with?
If you go into panic mode over a single loss — if your allyship immediately shifts to centering the other side, what message are you sending to those who have been fighting all their lives?

Stop and think.
TL;DR

If you are having a conversation about race and your position centers whiteness, white grievance, or white feelings, you are doing it wrong.
(PS: If any of this is new information, you are not following enough black woken on Twitter. Just FYI.)

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11 Nov
White dudes in the press keep making statements like this thinking they’re being clever, but experts have been screaming that Trump was an INEVITABLE OUTCOME of the GOP constantly choosing to amplify white supremacy in order to avoid electoral losses. Image
He’s actually only a unique threat to those conservatives that want to enact all his same goals in a “polite” manner so they can keep clutching pearls at anyone pointing out their white supremacy.
Trump took away their plausible deniability, and the vast majority still didn’t reject him. They frowned here and there but happily hid behind him to vote on all their judges and enact all their tax cuts and terrorize all the immigrants and minorities they could.
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11 Nov
White douchebros on the left love posting shit like this and then act like it’s unintentional that their replies are just a free-for-all of racist garbage. Image
No one had to do anything to stop Sanders. He has always been and will always be his own worst enemy. He chose to always center white voters. When his misogyny boost from 2016 failed to reappear in 2020, he chose to employ a strategy to try and circumvent Black Dem voters.
He hired alienating trolls as campaign staff. He still uses the same barking stump speech he’s used for decades. He employs the same tactics as Trump when it comes to responding to media criticism or losing elections.
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10 Nov
A footnote on today’s fuckery that I don’t want to tag onto already long threads: calling someone “terminally online” is ableist in the best of times. Doing it during a global pandemic is nonsensical.

You should side-eye any “disability advocate” who embraces someone using it.
Just like believing only lazy people utilize delivery services or buy pre-cut veggies or other foods when these are things disabled people need and are forced to pay a premium on.
For many disabled people, especially those with extreme SAD, online interaction is key to staying socialized and not becoming isolated.

There are ways of saying social media can give you tunnel vision that don’t erase those who are online a lot for other reasons.
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10 Nov
Never forget the “K-Hive is toxic” trope was started by the same racists that booed civil rights heroes as a way to excuse themselves.
It was begun as a deliberate weapon against Harris in the primaries by people who were trying to establish a “both sides are the same” narrative to offset the damage of being a BernieBro.
Sanders stood mute while his followers engaged in harmful racism and misogyny. He promoted the “rigged” lies. He embraced campaign strategies to undermine the collective power of Black voters while his official staff amplified “bend the knee” toxicity to a huge audience.
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9 Nov
This is why “just be nice to white people” is not a solution. Dudes will insist we all share the same goals, but choose to defame and rage the instant their attempts to center whiteness are rejected or they are asked to listen. Image
Dudes have been posting all day about how awful the K-Hive is because they got pushback against centering whiteness.

Let’s look at this.
Matthew’s calling the pushback he got “deranged” and “toxic.”

Here’s the actual exchanges: ImageImageImage
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8 Nov
Feels like the day to remind you that the Radio Free Toms of the country were fine with the vast majority of GOP fuckery that led to Trumpism. They defended Kavanaugh.

They have done *zero* work except to bitch about Dems not cleaning up after the GOP fast enough.
Of course they are offended and upset whenever they’re reminded of all the racism and misogyny they and their buddies championed.

Of course they want to change the conversation to tone instead of harm caused.

That’s what they do.
This is why many of us don’t hold with that “enemy of my enemy is my friend” stuff.

When you pet an abuser on the head just because they’ve stopped abusing but they’ve done nothing to make amends, they haven’t changed.

At all.
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