I have a question for trans people willing to answer.
Background is that I'm learning how different types of oppression lead to different ways of navigating.
The fact that Black kids generally grow up in Black families, knowing they're Black, makes racism different from homophobic, transphobia, and ableism, for instance.
I'm in groups for autistics and parents of autistic kids and I've found that while they combat ableism there's definitely a desire not to push allistic parents out.
Because even if it's oppressive ultimately they are fighting for the children not just like a better world (not to belittle justice lol).
My question, with willingness to shut up and be corrected, is... would you consider... treating well-meaning parents... differently? than you might generally treat someone "well-meaning" but harmful?
I don't know if I'm phrasing this well. I just.... parenting is very hard and we have to take care of children and it just seems more urgent to me than math.
But i also am not asking anyone to bear the burden of being hurt. I know it sucks. Idk. I guess I'm just thinking out loud about things that make me sad. For fun!!
I feel like this is a bad thread and i should delete. I hate not knowing if I'm being crappy to my friends!!
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right now i feel like we are watching a new white supremacist organization being born, and as annoying as that is, what is causing me physical discomfort is the confused white people.
has this already happened? a new organization/institution where it is known from the Beginning that it's effed and people are like oh idk they haven't said anything bad etc.
Okay so Kirby's essay is so frickin wordy and honestly makes me feel a little sick to have to read it for a quote. This time around i read the header about why it was published on his site.
AMS notices said no unless a specific anecdote was removed. Then this:
"The Newsletter of the AWM did not have the space, (but suggested a short letter referring to this article), so electronic publication in this form seemed to be the best alternative."