When I was much younger, my dad often refers to a home that broke up because of a fish head. The man was angry because the woman ate the fish head that he is the head of the home and the fish head belongs to him. The family eventually scattered because of the fish head. I have
analyzed this story for more than 20 years in my head, it has become a very hot topic that I silently deliberate on. How will fish head break a home? Just like how the story I shared about my husband asking me to dress the bed(caused a lot of Twitter uproar, some people even said
that I was in an abusive relationship) could have gone wrong and ended my home, anything can destroy a wonderful union. This doesn't mean that you were not compatible, compatibility is a different issue altogether. Abuse of purpose is a very big and effective cause of many broken
homes. The Bible says; when the foundation is destroyed, what can the righteous do? Like I said in my earlier thread; 'be fruitful, multiply, replenish the earth and subdue it' God did not call you into a private union, God called you into a union that will change the cause of
things in the world! That will set the threads! That will influence the world positively, that will subdue contrary negative ideas and multiply the number of beautiful homes! This is what God told me when I let the negative words of people get to me. When the purpose of my union
is clearly defined, why will I let fish head or curtsy define our actions? It is boredom, that makes us read meaning into everything. When you have too much free time idling around, you will use the opportunity to start forming unnecessary barriers around your life. I don't
demand respect, I earn it. I don't ask people to respect me, if I get disrespected in any way, I go back and reflect on my actions. If it is something I can talk about, I sit the perpetrator down and talk about it. If not, I adjust myself to avoid further disrespect. I don't go
about shouting like a wounded lion. Every experience I have gone through is like a platform for me to both teach and learn, I don't ignore them. I just wish I can sound this clear enough to cause a change in more lives. God bless you all

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