Trying to develop a healthier relationship with discipline and view it as one of the highest forms of self love, and not as the “punishment” I’ve been taught to look at it as throughout my life.
I deserve discipline, order, and direction. I deserve to be intentional with the effort I put into myself. I deserve to sacrifice temporary satisfaction, for delayed gratification. It may not always feel good to do, but it doesn’t need to feel good, for it to be good for me.
I’m trying to get myself to understand that lack of discipline, isn’t self-love, it’s self-sabotage. I disrespect myself and my goals, when I don’t tell me no, when I know I need to tell me no.
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