A short Naseeha to brothers:

One of the best things you can give your wives is your time and your attention. And especially if your wife is properly covered and neither on social media, nor in real life does any type of Tabarruj (displaying herself, her beauty), then know that
you are her only source from which she wants and can get this type of attention. And if she makes an effort to impress you with her appearance, then your wife deserves it that you praise her, admire her and make her feel beautiful.

And a wife (Allahu a'lam) doesn't want to hear
or feel that she is *only* loved for her Deen. A woman wants to feel like a woman and wants to know that the only person who can see her (in a certain way) finds her beautiful. Therefore don't be stingy with your compliments and attention and by doing this,
you will inshaAllah also help her to stay away from Tabarruj and from seeking attention from others, which both are nowadays very common even among Muslim women.

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