My x wife and I have been Co parenting our 7 year old daughter since she was born.

We were married for a short time and unfortunately split while being pregnant.

How to handle the difficult decisions that come with Co parenting.

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Co parenting is not God's plan.
Co parenting is the creation of man to justify legally how to raise a child separately.
God gave children
2 parents for a reason.

1 to nurture
1 to direct
Co-parenting after a separation or divorce is rarely easy.
The quality of the relationship between co-parents can also have a strong influence on the mental and emotional well-being of children, and the incidence of anxiety and depression.
Never let a discussion with your ex-partner digress into a conversation about your needs or their needs.
It should always be about your child’s needs only.
Realize that men have there strengths and weakness in regards to Kids

And so do women.
One of the hardest things for me was learning how to do her hair.

My mother and my sister lived 8 states away and I had now other women in my life.

I learned simple hair techniques and also found a hair stylist that did her hair perfessionally once a month.
Co parenting is not a straight forward event with rules.

Every child is different and needs different things.
My daughter needed a fun dad with alot of play time.

Your son might need more life lessons and educational help.
It should always be about your child’s needs only.

Create those memories that they will always revert back to when they grow up.

Dad always let me chalk up the drive way but I couldn't do it at mommy's house.

Dad is so fun!
Below is 5 tips that helped me become a better Co parent.
Tip 1.

Get your feelings out somewhere else.
Never vent to your child about the other parent.
We need the child to make there own assessment of each parent based on there relationship with each parent.
Tip 2.

Don’t put your children in the middle.
We need the child to make there own assessment of each parent based on there relationship with each parent.
Tip 3.

Never use kids as messengers.

As kids get older they will manipulate the message and create more problems between the 2 parents.

If you cant talk in person then write a letter and send it with the kid in an envelope.

Email is also very effective and legal resource.
Tip 4.

Set a business-like tone with the other parent.

You 2 are not in a intimate relationship anymore so it is only business.

Maintaining that atmosphere is best for the future family and the never partners coming in.

Create boundaries of communication and life.
Tip 5.

Become comfortable with Receiving and Make requests

Stop making demands for each other and instead request changes to be discussed.

Request that we put her in soccer and ask what are the objections to doing this.
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