Miriam Zinter was outside her house gardening when a comment by a neighbor brought her lovely day to a screeching halt.
“Why do you have a ‘Black Lives Matter’ sign on your front lawn when all those people do is kill each other,” her neighbor asked. huffpost.com/entry/black-wo…
“You know I’m Black, right?” Zinter replied.
Zinter has two Black parents, with white ancestors. She was born very light-skinned, with blue eyes and light, wavy hair. This isn’t the first time she’s had to have this conversation. This has been going on for a very long time.
“I told him that my father, who was a veteran, could not be approved to use the GI Bill for college or a house because he was Black,” Zinter writes. “I told him how BLM calls attention to the fact that Black people are considered less than white people ― and that needs to stop.”
“White people think I am white too, and therefore feel safe saying all kinds of horrible things they might not say publicly,” Zinter continues. “I’ve had people tell me it ‘disgusts’ them to see interracial couples. They’ve told me that Black people are “animals” or “thugs.”
“In every instance where I’ve encountered racist rhetoric, I have told these people that I am Black,” Zinter says. “I have told them my family’s story. Sometimes they say: ‘But you’re different!’ Then I ask them if other Black folks they know are also ‘different.’”
“There is a strategic force dedicated to segregation and racism,” Zinter writes. “We need to stop this. The best way to achieve change is to accept and learn about our racist past and the injustices visited upon our Black citizens.”
When Diarrha N’Diaye-Mbaye began delving into foundation as a teen, she struggled to find product lines that carried her shade. The problem still persists today for dark-skinned Black women — and she decided to do something about it. huffpost.com/entry/ami-col%…
The 31-year-old created Ami Cole, an award-winning brand that focuses specifically on melanin-rich skin while amplifying A-beauty, merging African heritage and clean, natural ingredients in its products.
“As I’m growing up... nowhere to be found was a makeup brand where you could guilt-free walk to a counter and buy something,” she said. “It was just like, ‘This is not made for you.’ For me, it was a lot of mixing and matching. None of my white friends are going through this.”
Scott Brown, who is Black, and his husband, who is white, are the proud foster-to-adopt parents of a white 21-month-old son. "We have become the object of such fascination due to the unconventional makeup of our family," writes Brown. huffpost.com/entry/black-da…
As an interracial couple, their only request was that the child they would end up adopting be a mix of something. When they were "presented with the whitest baby on the face of the earth," Brown was confused. "Those were usually the ones reserved for white heterosexual couples."
Brown says he had been preparing all his life to raise the most self-assured, entitled, Black (or some other non-white) child that he could. "Looking at this blond-haired, blue-eyed baby," he recalls, "apparently I should have been doing a different kind of training."
The four-part docuseries “Black and Missing” debuts on HBO today, chronicling the journey of two sisters-in-law, Derrica and Natalie Wilson, who are bringing awareness to Black missing persons cases ignored by law enforcement and national media. huffpost.com/entry/black-mi…
Directed by Emmy-winning filmmaker Geeta Gandbhir and journalist Soledad O’Brien, the series spotlights different cases and the nuances that distinguish them, including the impacts of online grooming and domestic violence. huffpost.com/entry/black-mi…
We spoke to Gandbhir and the Wilson sisters about the documentary and the purpose of their work.