First comes love and then comes ... a frank discussion about the realities of moving in together.
🏠 In a hot housing market, what happens when you’re ready to live together, but one (or both) of you already owns a home? trib.al/bX1CnCt
It’s natural for a homeowner to want their partner to move in. But is it fair for that partner? And is it healthy to have a landlord-tenant dynamic in your romantic relationship?
The short answer: No, it’s not fair, and that dynamic can be risky trib.al/bgufckI
After all, the “rent” being paid by the partner is ultimately subsidizing someone else’s mortgage with no equity being earned, no protections of a lease and the threat of eviction ever-present should things not work out trib.al/bgufckI
In 2019, 12% of millennials were living with an unmarried partner compared to 8% of Gen Xers at the same age bracket in 2003.
It’s important to have a conversation about the risks and sign a few legally binding documents to ensure both parties feel safe trib.al/bgufckI
The fundamental challenge in moving into a partner’s owned home is the power imbalance it creates.
The home isn’t “ours,” it’s “theirs.”
This means your partner can make unilateral decisions about the house and your living situation trib.al/bgufckI
The key questions you need to think about are:
⚫ What rights does each party have to the home?
⚫ What about in the event of a break up?
⚫ How much “rent” does the non-owner pay?
⚫ How will utilities, furnishings and upgrades be handled? trib.al/bgufckI
The renting partner isn’t likely to have the same rights as a tenant simply by moving in, unless they sign a lease.
Cohabitation and renting are not usually seen as the same thing in the eyes of the courts. It’s important to know your city and state laws trib.al/bgufckI
What happens if you break up needs to be a serious consideration before you agree to move in.
How long would you have to move out and find a new place should things go south?
This issue could be laid to rest by a written cohabitation property agreement trib.al/bgufckI
Also consider the finances of paying rent to your partner. Have a conversation about what feels fair in the context of your relationship.
The rent should certainly not be higher than what the non-owning partner is currently paying trib.al/bgufckI
Unless you directly caused damage, it should be on the partner who owns to handle any home upgrades or repairs.
A renter wouldn’t have to pay for a new roof, to fix the water heater or to upgrade the dishwasher. That’s the landlord's responsibility trib.al/bgufckI
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The European Union’s landmark decision to approve insects for human consumption was a victory for maggots and people everywhere.
It paves the way for an alternative protein source that should play a critical role in feeding a hotter, more populous world trib.al/2RC6aSi
For most consumers, the EU decision won’t translate to bugs in your burgers and mealworms in your macaroni.
Insects will play a far more integral role in human food systems going forward.
But they won’t likely be a direct form of protein trib.al/nsR7RQ7
🐛 Insects are becoming an increasingly valuable indirect food source — a feedstock for poultry, farmed fish, pork and beef which are currently fattened on environmentally costly soy and corn feeds trib.al/nsR7RQ7
✈️ International travel is largely being put on hold again, and with it the chance to tap the staggering balance of rewards points and airline miles many consumers have accumulated.
Some airlines and hotels are devaluing their loyalty program points trib.al/o349K23
A flight or a stay that used to require, say, 100,000 points could cost much more than that.
Industry experts say more travel providers are likely to follow suit next year so they can decrease their outstanding liabilities trib.al/4E2HvVs
✈️ Southwest decreased the value of its Rapid Rewards points by 6%
✈️ Delta reduced the value of points customers use for some international flights
✈️ United Airlines devalued points for some of its partners when travelers book close to the departure date trib.al/4E2HvVs
🎮 The video-game business has a long and troubled history of sexism and gender stereotypes.
A round of scandals at multiple gaming companies offered a reminder that the industry has a lot more to do to fix its culture and repair its reputation trib.al/EkQrKKw
The situation isn’t hopeless.
A hit release from Sony shows there is a big market for games that portray women as smart and resourceful actors rather than as pawns, victims and objects of male desire trib.al/hzAdwZk
Recently, League of Legends maker Riot Games has been sued for gender discrimination.
Ubisoft and Activision Blizzard have let go of several executives amid allegations of widespread sexual harassment trib.al/hzAdwZk
These ever-popular holiday gifts can tell you how far you have walked, run, cycled or skydived, and will let you know whether you’re getting enough rest, sleep or downtime.
With ever more data being collected from our bodies, gadgets from Apple, Garmin, Fitbit and dozens more are starting to assert their own opinions about how we should live our lives.
The feedback might be doing more harm than good trib.al/p8l8xl2
There is a term for this phenomenon: the nocebo effect.
The opposite of a placebo, a nocebo delivers otherwise benign information that can actually reduce your sense of well-being.
Will you or a loved one truly benefit from 24-7 monitoring? trib.al/p8l8xl2