This take responds to a tweet re: the CDC's reduction of the time guideline from positive test to return to work, with more cuts foreshadowed "[to address] staff shortages."
I've heard this clarion call before. There's something that I think the people who make it are missing.
So, I'm not saying that the take is wrong or bad.
I WILL say this: I have answered this clarion call before. I have showed up to DS meetings for 3 different orgs. I have showed up to trainings and movement-building meetings in this vein of various kinds.
In them...
...my experience at socialist organization meetings has been that they are universally, consistently, and by a wide margin some of the most uppity, sneering, un-empathetic, yell-over-each-other-y spaces I have ever visited.
For me and my low caucus score, it's an immediate nah.
Right so, to catch you up before I go on, here's an introduction to the caucus score concept.
Anyway, I hesitate to speculate as to why socialist organization meetings are like this in practice...
Nevertheless I'll do it because, f**k it, this is Twitter, the bazaar of half-baked ideas
Here we go
The people with the time, energy, and leverage to organize socialist meetings also tend to be folks with...you guessed it, privilege.
So, #1, these spaces lean HEAVILY toward one demographic. Figuring out which one it is I'll leave as an extremely easy exercise for the reader.
#2, people with privilege (not just the dom demo btw—EVERYONE with privilege, this is what privilege IS) are socialized to believe that everything they have to say is a positive contribution to the conversation. They are accustomed to having the speaking floor.
So...
...in a meeting when someone takes it away, they are relatively more likely to be SURPRISED by that, and when people are surprised and upset, they behave badly.
Another thing in these spaces is that...
...the people running them lean kinda policy-wonk.
Theoretically, this is fine. In practice, policy wonks share some...uh, characteristics with the programming community that make them kinda hard to spend time with.
For example, at these meetings I have watched organizers pick apart the WORDING of someone's earnest question like chickens at a millet pile.
I have seen this, like, drinking game levels of often at these meetings.
For another example...
I have heard someone say at a meeting, and this is a direct quote:
"We are right. That's the end of it. I do not want to have to convince anyone."
And you know what? This, right here, is fundamentally the idea that I think is making retention in these groups so hard.
The bottom line is, if you want to build any kind of collective effort, let alone a f**king supermajority, you have to convince people of shit.
You have to be able to empathize with others, change your mind, see things you didn't see before, admit you were wrong, and do other...
...coalition-building tasks that the people actually running these meetings seem to consider to be humiliating and/or beneath them.
Look. I'm not here to denigrate a movement.
But the truth is, "encouraging" (or guilting, which they also do) people into coming to or staying at these meetings will work on, i dunno, 6 people.
It won't hold, and it CERTAINLY won't amass, a supermajority.
In fact, here's my distillation: even rejecting capitalism requires you to be willing to sell.
"You should want this and if you don't your wrong" is not a sales technique. It therefore feels better to self-righteous anticapitalists to use, but the thing is, it doesn't work.
Ya gotta be able to sell your idea, your movement, your plan
And you've gotta be able to inspire AND INCLUDE the needs, boundaries, and abilities of A LOT of different people in that plan in order to build a big enough coalition to actually fix anything.
Until socialist orgs figure out they need those skills and then humble themselves enough to build those skills, they'll continue as struggling clutches of self-righteous privileged people lamenting on the internet how no one comes to their thing.
What I'd recommend if any of these orgs asked me what to do (which they definitely won't) would be:
- Learn to notice when y'all interrupting or droning on
- Seek out the most marginalized perspective in your movement and center it
- Work thru this book:
Tech books exhibit a strange cost bell curve relative to quality.
Expense-it-to-prodev priced books are consistently fair-to-middlin'. Accessibly priced books, a standard deviation above or below that. Free books, either TRULY shite, or the best tech writing I've ever read.
My hypotheses on why come from my experiences:
- planning books with big publishers
- hearing from published author colleagues
- getting pitched on self-publishing
- self-publishing for reasons totally unlike the pitches
Here they are, in all their half-baked glory:
1. Books from big publishers
I won't name names, but if you've been around tech, you know who this is. These are the places with the highest price point. It's that high because they expect people to expense it to their employers. These places have a lot of name recognition, and
I am 9 minutes into S6E3 of Lucifer. Why is there a new angel? Shouldn't we have met all the angels by/in the S5 finale?
Anyway, I guarantee you this one's a lesbian. I am 110% certain.
And BY THE WAY, I was already 75% certain based on that two-second shot of her feet in S6E1.
I'm also just gonna repeat what I said eons ago about how obvious it is that all the heaven-dwelling celestials in this show are het and all the queer celestials are hell-dwellers. Like, I get that it's cable TV but that's still f'd up, it's 2021 people
So a Worldcon guest tweeted that U.S. defense companies can be ethically "grey" despite, uh, getting paid to orchestrate killing people.
The evidence: the OP's partner works at one; the OP used to work at one that helped w the moon landing.
I'm not here to drag. Let's talk.
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FIRST THING FIRST: I'm not sharing the screenshot because I believe it is unfair to share people's de-anonymized hot takes without notifying them or linking to where they might amend. That's closer to lashon hara than accountability and that bothers me.
On to the take.
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I've watched something like this play out pretty often in tech: a person thinks of themselves as a good person, or they are dating an ostensibly good person, and that person works for a company that does bad things.
So now they have to back-justify what's happening.
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DOC: Yikes. Broth has too much sodium. You'll raise your blood pressure
ME: That's the point. My blood pressure is low
DOC: *takes bp* ...wow. I...could prescribe something to raise your blood pressure
ME: *points at broth*
This summer in NYC, I fainted in the middle of a 500 person junk swap because I'd gone for a run and I guess hadn't fully rehydrated. THAT's how close to the line my bp runs.
Then when they took me to the ER, where my poor mother had to come visit me thinking I might've DIED /1
they wouldn't let me leave until my bp & hr returned to "normal." Except my usual 106/60ish and 48 doesn't hit "normal".
I had to wait until nurses weren't looking, have my mother shield me, and do jumping jacks so they'd let me leave.
The TV equivalent of french fries, the not-exactly-satisfying-but-momentarily-deicious stack of cable TV tropes in a trenchcoat that I've threaded the daylights out of on its queer representation: Lucifer