Thread by @Neels17Bist

We are born to be real not to be perfect-a phrase apt for Sai
My POV, decode Sai as per learning & experience based on psychology of human behavior. Kindly ignore it,If you don't like it but don't jump into any conclusions without reading whole thread+
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Sai a girl raised by his father with all good moral & social values. Even she knows her traditions too well. Usha mausi was there but still a mother is influenced is need more in growing up years+
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Becoz only mother can teach a girl about relationship especially about husband & wife like Aai use to do after their marriage. Virat has disturbed childhood same Sai has also not seen couple bond due to her Aai demise+
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It also impact Sai understanding about husband wife relationship. The bond a couple share physically, emotionally & spiritually after wedding.
As per storyline KJ & Virat share a good bond from police academy, so can guess Sai has heard+
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Virat name in her growing age&
she is connected indirectly.1st man could be a girl crush,friend,mentor,lover whoever it but makes an impact on her whole life as this is the 1st person whom she trust after her family. In Sai life Virat is that person+
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Though in person they start with some lil tiff but they both care for each other & listen to each other. 
Sai was shattered when KJ lost his life, she blamed Virat for this out of anger but she said Sorry to him when he was leaving GC+
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Sai was broken &she end her life but,God has some other plans for her. Virat saved her life & on pressure of village people he ready to marry Sai.Sai was not ready to marry him it is not because she hates him but because she knows he loves someone else+
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Even Sai acknowledged that Virat saved her life twice and for this she will always be grateful to him. For Sai, her new life is given by Virat & He is only one in her life whom she trust after her Aaba & she knows Aaba choice will never be wrong+
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Virat ready to marry her, but the moment she heard about deal marriage she was heartbroken when Virat says he can't give her wife's right. She literally get a shock as she can't accept an honest person like Virat talking about deal marriage but +
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still she accept it becoz nothing is left for her now except her studies so she accept this deal marriage. As per V his family will ve expectations frm S being as a DIL but V will not expect anything from her&S is free to go once she becomes independent+
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Deal word create an invisible wall between Sai & Virat as a result Sai never get friendly with Virat & share her issues with him. When Virat fall in love with Sai, he try to be friendly with Sai but by that time Sai hide herself under a shell +
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Just like a tortoise hide under shell,so that no touch,same S has done her w/feelings for Virat,as she don't want to get effect emotionally by Virat action. She don't want to flow on emotion with Virat as she knows she will not get reciprocation from V+
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Mental torture start with her greh pravesh, by night she come to know their deal marriage is no more secret as Virat told Pakhi his BFF. She was questioned for her upbringing in front of public. Physical torture start with 1st day of her college+
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Extreme of inhumanity by fam & especially by Pakhi. Sai want to leave CN but again for Virat she did not leave CN. Mental tortures keep on increasing with each passing day especially by Pakhi who manipulate family,Virat and some times Sai too+
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by keep on tauntint & keep reminding her about deal marriage. All these actions of family& Pakhi, there is reaction by Sai&for these reactions she was labeled outspoken,stubborn,ill mannered etc. It all happens in Virat presence & absence both+
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Saree gifting,P created a huge big scene finally to make peace S has to give up her wife rights.People feel it's wrong but S give up something which S already does not have,as per V statement on their wedding that she will not have wife's right on him+
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H bday,P crossed all her limits by raising questions about being in CN & callinh S gold digger,nurse,so on &worst V was present&keep quiet&allow P to raise on S but whn S raised questions about their past relationship V proved her liar on front of fam+
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She give Ruby pendat to Kaku is not because she doesn't respect Virat's feelings, as people say and interpret. She does all this because she want peace in family & that was Virat asked him to do their taking care of his fam& S knows V loves his fam+
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S respect V feelings&love his sweet,kind gesture for S& acknowledge them too whether it rubypendant,S birthday celebration,but S always thought V is a kind heart man&doing all this make S happy as S his zimmdaari, she did not knew V feelings has change+
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Many times for family & especially Pakhi actions, Sai reactions comes out in form of her anger which burst on Virat as he is only one whom she feel connected &consider her family. It is said,you get anger on person whom you feel you have right &love him+
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With all this mental torture she continued to stay in CN because she want shelter, money, gifts from Virat, not at all. She lives in CN just & only because of Virat. Virat is only person in her life who is centre of her life& S life revolves around V+
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S never express in words becoz S never come out of her shell. Whenever S tries to come out of her shell,situation push her back.
S try when Sam ask her leave past behind & accept w/open heart & mind what is coming your way & then cafe incident happened
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Now when finally she comes out of her shell, her feelings for Virat, destiny has written something else for her.
Virat is perfect (as many people says) son, brother, husband, friend buy he is not real. We can't keep happy at same time+
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He is only perfect as friends as he always maintain his friendship goals whether it's Pakhi, Sada, Shruti, Sai in friendship track whereas Sai is not perfect has many flaws but she is real.She is knows how to manage relationships within family+
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where to speak truth.S never tell Sam abt P actions of past 1 yr as S knows this will hurt Sam&spoilt his relationship w/P. Even S give respect to P too.
S accept everything she recd fm fam good or bad & P too&that all becoz S respect &love V feelings
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Heard biggest enemy of woman is a woman. It is always easy to judge once reaction & comment on it but don't forget behind of every reaction there is an action.
Thank you #SaiJoshi for being real & not being perfect.Congratulations for completing 400epi.
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