Okay so I got a new binder and honestly the gender euphoria is unreal right now holy shit
IT FITS SO NICE TOO
Please forgive my face but I'm a dumbass who got 6 hours of sleep and has a dental cleaning at ass o clock am so I am TIRED
I've been using an old binder from my ex for ages and I just thought all binders Looked Like That when u wore them and NOPE turns out the euphoria is reaaaaal
This doesnt even hurt holy shit. BRAS give me back pain and this whole-ass binder is chill
Dont be a dumbass like me, get a quality binder sooner rather than later
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For the record - any time a tweet of mine goes viral in any capacity, it kickstarts a panic attack.
Partially because of the eyes on me, but mostly because I have had credible doxxing threats before, and every time a tweet gets attention, it reminds me of that.
That said, I would appreciate any safety tips y'all have, especially from my larger moots. Last time, I got my sister's name sent to me, along with some of her identifying information. I purged that account - it was for marketing my local novel, and was much easier to identify.
There's a reason I try to balance anonymity and being myself on here. There are people in my life to protect. If I ever leave this site, there's a 50% chance another credible threat was why.
So yes, I would appreciate safety tips, in lieu of the latest doxxing/harassment wave.
Had to explain to my mother that the guy panhandling outside the hiring grocery store probably doesn't have a home address or a vehicle and that's why he can't get a job there, and she was STUNNED to know those things are requirements.
The conversation continued on to what it'd be like if he had a job. If he could afford anything at min wage. "Well people are paying above min wage now." Okay, true. It's more like 15 there.
15 bucks for a 40 hour week is 600 bucks. In a month, that's 2400.
Rent is 1k average.
"That's good enough."
"Most rental places want your rent to be a third of your income."
"Maybe get a roommate?"
"1k is the price for a studio or 1 bedroom."
"Oh, that's true."