How to vet a woman for marriage?

I don't understand why a man and a woman would commit to each other for life if they weren't raising children.
Relationships are difficult enough as it is. They come with their own set of examinations and challenges.
Find a girl who complements your qualities.
If you’re unorganized, then someone who could help you with organization may be a great fit.

Again, you need someone who is the Yin to your Yang.
You'll clash if you're both stubborn and "lone wolf" minded; someone needs to lead, and it can't be both of you.
You want to marry a woman who will be there for you during the dark nights and difficult times as well as the sunny days and rainbows.
You should not have to skip out on spending time with your parents and siblings because your wife despises them.
Regardless of her family dynamics, if you are close to your immediate family, the addition of a woman should not disrupt that; rather, it should intensify it since the family has increased.
If you change for her, your family will lose their son, and your wife will acquire a guy who is not true; you will despise yourself for the rest of your life as a result.
Bring her around them and make sure she is a good fit before putting a ring on her finger.
Make sure before you commit to someone for life, you’ve done the work.
Forget the tropics; marriage can be wet, drab, and unpleasant at times.

A framed guy recognizes these shifts and creates an environment that encourages closeness.
Get to know your woman. You may discover severe red flags and be forced to end the relationship; you may discover small faults that you can work with or assist mold your woman to change for the better.
You don't need a mate to complete yourself; you're already complete.
Waiting for someone who shares your ideals is more valuable than having someone who simply changes enough to match half of your expectations.
If you want a partner, you should look for things like self-awareness, integrity, strength of character, consistency, and someone's willingness to face discomfort.
The space between what we choose and what we want is the space where we have to learn to live our own love story.
If you want to find someone excellent for your soul, you must live a soul-honoring life. You must feel things that nourish your spirit in order to comprehend what does and does not nourish you.
In the same way that you spend time in the produce section scrutinizing your fruits and veggies and seeking advice from others before purchasing, you should do the same with the individuals you date.
Because I view dating as a vetting process, I don't become connected unless there's a compelling reason to do so.
When screening while dating, you must be astute and clever in your approach.

You don't want to go overboard, but you also want it known that you're seeking for her methods.
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