For about a year and a half, I worked at the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum here in D.C. as a visitor services representative. On my first day, I was walking with my supervisor, who nudged me at one point and said: "See that guy? That's Henry. Make sure you talk to him." (thread)
Henry Greenbaum was born in Poland in 1928. His father passed away early in the war, his mother and two of his sisters were murdered at Treblinka, and three more of his sisters died in a nearby labor camp. Only Henry, his sister Dina, and brothers Zachary and David survived.
Henry survived that labor camp and then time at Auschwitz and then Flossenbürg and had he and his fellow Survivors not been liberated enroute on their death march, he would have likely been murdered at Dachau.
I was awestruck by this man when I met him, and he had no time for that. He didn't want a pedestal. He wanted to genuinely connect with people. He was funny and warm and made the time to get to know staff members. Unsurprisingly, his emotional intelligence was off-the-charts.
Yes, he had a personal mission--he would come every week to chat with visitors for hours at a time, telling his story, over and over again--but he also just wanted the company. He loved to laugh. I was dating another staff member at the time, and he'd jokingly urge us to marry.
One time he came in with a bag of his old neckties and told the staff we were welcome to them. He handed out a few, including one to me. When I came out a few years later, I got rid of just about all my masculine clothing, including all my ties. Except for his. I still have it.
Despite the enormity of his loss and suffering, Henry made the most of his time left. He wanted to enjoy life, he wanted to enjoy the company of others, and he wanted to tell his story to as many people as possible. Why? For the memories of those who didn't survive.
This man could have done whatever the hell he wanted to do for the rest of his life, and no one would have thought lesser of him. And yet, he made it a point to come to the Museum every week and tell his story to more strangers who had never met a Survivor.
Henry knew that his generation was slipping into history and that they would soon all pass on. I think he worried that not having living Survivors around to tell their stories might allow the world to become complacent and fall back into the horrors he witnessed as a young man.
I was very naïve about all this. In 2014, I didn't appreciate his concern nearly as much as I should have. I was working in a world-renowned museum, visited by millions annually, in a national culture with no shortage of media about the Holocaust. How is complacency possible?
Henry, for all his warmth and humor, did not see the world that way. While he strongly believed in the goodness of humanity, he was also acutely aware of how bad things could become again if we weren't consistently educated on those horrors and how they came about.
The Holocaust did not happen overnight or even over a few years. It was the result of a steady drip of poison over MANY years that disenfranchised, then dehumanized, and then murdered millions of innocents. And it could not have been done without the buy-in of ordinary citizens.
Teachers, doctors, lawyers, clergy, shopkeepers, friends, lovers, neighbors, the same kind of ordinary people that each of us see around ourselves every day. The same kind of people as us. We are never too far from that buy-in. It is always looming. Henry knew that.
When I left the Museum in 2014, I was grateful for the experience but at the time, it still didn't hit me how close the threats were as described by Henry. Not just now, not just ten or twenty years ago but the way that unaccountable hatred is always present and must be checked.
For the vast majority of Americans, we all love to imagine that we would be righteous and stand against hatred. We watch movies or read books about the Holocaust and think we'd have done things differently. But would we? Really?
Yesterday, it was revealed that the McMinn County Board of Education in Tennessee voted, 10-0, to ban "Maus", the iconic, Pultizer Prize-winning graphic novel about the Holocaust, which is geared toward educating children. Banned, supposedly, for nudity and violence.
Somehow, all the other books in McMinn County Schools that feature violence and nudity--Shakespeare and Hemingway, and, yes, the Bible--were somehow not banned. Those are deemed appropriate. Those are okay for children, we're told. Just not the one about the Holocaust.
It's not just the Holocaust, of course. Books on white supremacy, the history of slavery in the United States, LGBTQ narratives, etc. -- these books are being banned by school districts, too, and at a far greater rate in the past year.
Henry died in 2018, and I think of him often. I miss our conversations. But over the past year, my thoughts have been sharply focused on Henry's persistent concern, the one that kept him coming back, week after week, month after month, year after year.
We are never too far away from the process that landslides into those horrors, and I wish that I had asked Henry more questions about that particularly. That's why he was there. I regret not begging for every bit of wisdom he was willing to offer on that.
I have pictures with Henry from when I was in the closet that are just for me. I don't like to show them. And even this photo doesn't quite do justice to his warmth. But this is where he sat for so many years, telling his story to anyone who would listen. Love you, Henry. /thread
The D.A.R.E. program, as numerous studies have found, was abysmally ineffective. That's unsurprising to those of us who went through it as kids. It was very well funded window dressing for incompetent politicians who failed to understand root causes or didn't care about them.
In fact, some studies have shown that children who went through the D.A.R.E. program were more likely to use drugs than those who hadn't been in the program.
I don't pretend to know how "Euphoria" influences teens, but it's incredibly rich for a failed and harmful program that came out of a failed and harmful War on Drugs started by a failed and harmful presidency to lecture a TV show on what kids really need.
I've been feeling really bummed out lately about the world. You probably feel the same. So, aside from the bulk of Charlotte's Web Thoughts (my essays), I decided to launch a weekly newsletter component that focuses on good things happening in the world!
The newsletter component is called "The Goods", and I intend for it to be the kind of thing that makes readers smile every week and reminds them why we're fighting for a better world.
The stories featured in "The Goods" this week:
1. Amy Schneider's historic (and ongoing) winning streak on Jeopardy.
2. Rachel Balkovec's hiring as the first woman professional baseball team manager in the minor leagues.
3. Councilmember Andrea Jenkins makes history AGAIN.
I've worked numerous minimum wage jobs, and I've worked in salaried positions. I know for a fact the colleagues I had in "low skilled" positions could do office work. I'm rarely as certain that some salaried colleagues I've known would last more than a week in a minimum wage job.
It takes considerable skill to deal with asshole customers on a daily basis. It takes considerable skill to navigate work environments with mediocre HR policies. It takes considerable skill to juggle minimum wage labor when it's not even enough to live on most of the time.
And by the way: all this labor is needed to keep this country afloat. Many people who haven't worked minimum wage jobs forget that their standard of living would cease to exist without the millions and millions of low wage workers propping up the American economy.
I believe it’s impossible not to like @NidaAllam. In our conversations, the 28 year-old elected official comes across as thoroughly honest, hardworking, and brilliant.
Did I mention she’s a genuinely kind person? That, too.
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Last year, Allam was elected to the Durham County Board of Commissioners in North Carolina, receiving the most votes of any commission candidate (voters could choose five), the first Muslim woman elected to any office in the state AND completing the first all-woman Board.
This followed her historic election in 2017 as one of the Vice Chairs of the North Carolina Democratic Party and appointment as Chair of the Durham Mayor’s Council for Women, the first Muslim American to achieve both.
The thing about the guy who chose to say "Let's go, Brandon" on a Christmas call with his kids and the President of the United States and the First Lady is that he clearly made a choice. He knew it'd be controversial and offensive. He did it anyway. What more needs to be said?
Yeah, I'm angry that the President and First Lady were disrespected, especially given the occasion. Yeah, I think "let's go, Brandon" is very cringey and pathetic.
But mostly, I feel bad for his kids, who will fully understand this all later. Such a bonehead move. Embarrassing.
Purely from a comms standpoint, since he wanted to embarrass Pres. Biden, he could have gone on there and gave an earnest testimony on something like how inflation is hurting families. Doesn't matter if it's accurate. It would have been effective.
Although I thought "Licorice Pizza" is otherwise very charming and lovely and the acting by Alana Haim and Cooper Hoffman was fantastic, the age difference (25 vs. 15) was unnecessary and really weird and kinda gross and I don't get why he wrote it this way. It's confusing.
I know, wet blanket and all that, but I kinda tend to think grown ass adults and teenagers shouldn't date and it's very strange for a filmmaker to pretend this is hunky dory. It's not.
I have no problem with Paul Thomas Anderson loving a character as much as he loves Gary. That's fine. He's a fun character. But he's a fucking kid. He's 15. And I don't care how enterprising he is, he's still a damn kid and shouldn't be making out with adults. No. Stop that.