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1/ I was well mannered.
I was a people pleaser.
I once and believed that people who were also well mannered and smiled must be honest and kind.
I was groomed. @davtw2
2/ Unfortunately being well mannered in a situation of trust, can lead to being used and abused.
It can lead to grooming.
It can lead to many forms of abuse including IPV and DFV.

Teaching our children to be obedient isn’t sending the right message. @DrWilliams
3/ Through adversity Grace Tame learned to trust her instincts and show her emotions.

This deflects those who are not genuine. It helps to deflect shame. Shame grows in silence. @TamePunk
4/ Independent and fierce Women cannot be synonymously silent and well mannered in uncomfortable situations.

We need to re-think the messages we teach all of our children. #VAW #ChildrensMentalHealthWeek #GraceTame

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