Exodus of Kashmiri Hindus happened around 1990, I was studying in the school ! Neither my parents nor my grandparents discussed all this..I was happily roaming and playing without knowing what's happening around!
Watched the entire Ramayana episode as +
a kid without having the consciousness of asking why our Lord Rama birthplace got occupied by some xyz in his own land ?!
Laughed at every film mocking our hindu sentiments thinking it as a comedy without knowing the missionary plan !
In every film hero dressed up like temple poojari giving love letters and happily enjoyed every scene without having the consciousness as a hindu!