Be very selfish with your money, so what if she calls you broke or stingy, that's her opinion. Don't be easily manipulated by women that you let their shaming tactics get to you & let them siphon your blood, sweat, tears & even marrow. It's your money, you earned it...
Never allow a woman to put you under financial pressure. As a matter of fact if she's a girlfriend unlike a wife who is your responsibility, she must not even ask for money. You don't owe her money, that's her father's responsibility...
Any money you give her is out of your generosity not a responsibility. She must wait for you to give it to her & if you don't you don't. And whatever amount you give her, she must be grateful. As a man never allow yourself to spend beyond your means...
Imagine borrowing money so you can sponsor a woman's demands, highest level of stupidity. When you meet a woman who demands more of your resources than you’re able to comfortably allocate, cut her loose, she's a liability...
Which is why from the start of the relationship the expectation of your resources needs to be established upfront. You need to set the tone & make her aware of her place in your list of priorities. Your vision comes 1st before her...
Don't even shy away from telling her "NO" or "I can't afford it", because she also can't afford it, if she did, she wouldn't be demanding it from you. In fact her own father can't even afford it, that's why she's behaving like an orphan to you...
If you're weak, these parasites will suck you for every cent you have. And move on to the next fool. Know this: A woman will always demand more but remember when your resources disappear, so will she. Keep your money close to your chest, be very STINGY with it, it's YOURS!
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