Thread by @rclarkie

So I've now heard Gabriel's had a shout out from Zoe Ball on Radio 2! Crazy. His story seems to have really struck a chord, which is lovely. We could all do with a little sunshine given the state of the world. But since things have gone so public, a couple of thoughts: 1/6

The phrase 'bullying' is bouncing around and I think we need to be careful. I deliberately didn't use that word in my original tweet, nor do I think it is accurate. It's very easy for us all to demean the 'other', as a way of reinforcing who we are. 2/6

Just 5mins on here will confirm that! Inevitably kids take their cues from us so it's hardly surprising that they might do the same, especially amongst teenagers still trying to figure out who they are. Yes it's shitty but we need to be supporting ALL kids and helping them. 3/6

Which means we should probably check what we are modelling. So I think it's important this stays a positive story about lifting up. I also want to add that Gabriel's school is brilliant, its pastoral care absolutely 2nd to none. 4/6

Finally, although I got the ball rolling, it is Gabriel's Mum, my amazing wife @teresagclark who is doing the emotional heavy lifting and taking care that he isn't overwhelmed and this remains a positive experience. 5/6

Also his brilliant, and equally talented, sister Amelie who guards him like a lioness. I am truly blessed. So, lovely twittery people, please do retweet this thread and let's do our best to lift up all kids. We'll keep you posted about Gabriel's #bowlforukraine raffle! ⬇️⬇️