On #LesbianVisibilityDay, I share my essay for @aperturefnd on Myriam Boulos' incredible photography. Look at this powerful photograph that illustrates it
Against a purple sky, two naked men tenderly embrace; one is, indeed, whispering, not to us the welcome voyeurs—but into the ear of his beloved.
📷 Myriam Boulos, Untitled, Beirut, Lebanon, November 2017–August 2020
Juxtapose the delicacy of that moment—men stripped of the confines that patriarchy makes of masculinity—with the altogether more robust, and much more tightly cropped, image of two women kissing. Swallowing each other whole, more like.
📷 Myriam Boulos, Untitled, Beirut, Lebanon
It is difficult to ascertain where one begins and the other ends. There is power in their desire.
And that is what the revolution renders: powerful women and tender men.
How many women will hear the words Emma Thompson’s character says in this trailer and feel their lives are being read back to them? I am eager to see this.
A good friend wrote to me to say that she will fly to NYC so that we can watch this together and talk and talk and talk!
And you know that I'll be writing about this for FEMINIST GIANT.
"Ukraine’s human rights commissioner, Lyudmila Denisova, said in early April that there were nine official cases of women who were pregnant after being raped by Russian soldiers."
It is especially sickening to read of these latest atrocities this month. In April 1992, Serb paramilitaries turned a hotel called Vilina Vlas into one of the biggest rape camps of the Bosnian war. It is now a spa. This is what I saw when I visited in 2016 feministgiant.com/p/essay-vilina…
For too long, rape has been considered an almost natural result of war, as if soldiers and rebels and fighters just stumbled upon it, as if it were something that was inevitable rather than deliberate.
Only 1 in 10 women living with HIV who qualify for menopausal hormone therapy have ever received it. As with many health disparities, Black women were less likely to receive hormone replacement therapy than their white peers. poz.com/article/clinic…
We hear too little, if at all, about the experiences of menopausal people living with HIV. I am honoured and thrilled that @susancolehaley is writing about her experience for the menopause anthology I am editing for @unbound. Check it out and pledge! unbound.com/books/bloody-h…
"As seen w/other health disparities, while about half of white women had discussed menopause with a provider, this fell to 37% of Indigenous women & 36% of Black/African/Caribbean women.And Black women were 58% less likely than their white peers to use menopausal hormone therapy"
Not only does patriarchy use the words used to describe our genitals as curse words, it punishes if we then use those curse words (that describe our body parts, remember) but even if we just use those words as they were intended, as anatomical words.
In a world in which “vaginas,” “pussies,” and “cunts” are words that patriarchy deems to be inherently female and at the same time inherently profane, let us remember that when we say “vagina” we often mean “vulva. Do you know the difference?
And that not all women have vaginas (or vulvas) or pussies, that it’s not just cisgender women who have vaginas (or vulvas) or pussies, and that we can all be cunts. And let us always cis-heteropatriarchy to fuck off. feministgiant.com/p/essay-in-app…