I watched #bloodsisters today & one thing that particularly strikes me in the end which is grossly underemphasized is Timeyin's revelation that her mom killed her husband to hide the fact that she committed paternity fraud
You see these things happen. They just go swept under...
the carpet because everyone assumes that the wife, the most bereaved person, would have nothing to do with the death of her husband—a brilliant alibi that's sometimes untrue
That's why I don't blame In-laws who suspect a wife or puts the blame of the death of their son on her...
esp if he died mysteriously.
You see they understand that sometimes women can go any length to cover up their crimes
Last month, I read where a woman suffocated her 6 month old baby at night because her husband was not its real father. Everyone believed the baby died in sleep
She did that to cover up her crime of infidelity should the husband insist to carry out a DNA test afterwards.
These things happen!
Back to the movie, the paternity fraud made Uduak unnecessarily biased towards her son, Kola, over others. And this indulged & fueled his...
propensity for violence & of course cultivated deep-seated envy & enmity between him & his brother
In case you missed the point, let me break it down for you:
THE GENESIS OF THE FAMILY'S WHOLE PROBLEM IS UDUAK
Never underestimate the ill luck of a bad wife. The family was destroyed by her.
That's why our forefathers cautioned that we watch the type of women we marry because women can either build or destroy your homes
That's why it's always advisable as a man that you marry a woman who loves you more than you love her. At least the probability of her cheating on you is way less than the other way round
And most importantly you don't turn a h*e to a wife or even take back a cheating wife.
The probability of her going back to her days of wh*redom is very high. The past is never in the past.
A cheating wife kills faster than a time bomb!
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When I say a cheating wife kills faster than a time bomb, people think I'm joking or exaggerating.
I'm not. I mean every single word of it.
A cheating wife won't mind killing you to elope with her new lover.
It has happened before & will still happen again
A man once...
caught his wife of 6 years of marriage red-handed cheating with his best friend. They pleaded it was a mistake & asked for forgiveness. But the man wouldn't take it. He threatened to end the marriage by informing his In-laws the next day. On the night of that same day it happened
his wife orchestrated area thugs to come for robbery & kill the man. But the man was prepared. He already sent words to his soldier friend who dispatched security agents to the man's house & that was how those thugs were nabbed before they could carry out their mission.
If you do the right thing, you won't feel the urge to go through your woman's phone
That singular act alone is insecurity. It signals that you are scared of losing her. And by that, you've lost frame.
Moreover, if she gets to know you're scared of losing her, that you are...
jealous that another man will take her from you, she begins to think you are weak, that you are not high value enough to keep her, that you are not deserving of her hence why you are scared that some other guy has what it takes to wrestle her away from you.
And this will even motivate her to cheat on you with that guy you are scared of losing her to
You have to understand that women have a twisted view of morality (what is right or wrong). To put it simply, women are less honourable than men...
I don't understand why men like to stress themselves over women who are clearly not into them & even go on to wife them up
She curved you for two years while dating other men but in your mind, you tell yourself she loves you, that she needs more time to realize it...
And when she does remember you exist after getting dumped by her first options, you jump to the high heavens, elated that you've "fought for love & you've won & infact it's the best thing that has ever happened to you"😭...
I think it's a self esteem thing. I think most men don't rate themselves & they show this by accepting the love they don't deserve. And this is understandable 'coz we live in a society that doesn't rate men
Or why would we be celebrating Men's Day the same day we celebrate...
Let go of that limiting belief that you have to be in a commited relationship to have sex
No you don't
You can be single, uncommitted & still be on a smashing spree😂
Many guys in their search for sex have unnecessarily roped themselves in a non-sexual relationship where...
the girl keeps telling them to wait till marriage while they take on the responsibility of a boyfriend without getting the coochie in return 😭
Lol you don't need to lie about what you want from her, go straight to the point my brother...
If she dey enter ya eye & you want a sexual relationship & no strings attached, stop beating about the bush by telling her you want to know more about her or worse, you want to be her friend (aswear konji na bastard) 😭
When a woman knows that you need her less than she needs you, she does everything to keep the relationship going
That's why you are encouraged to position yourself as the one who is least scared of losing the other by becoming outcome independent & not showing any sign of...
neediness, or else you've shot yourself in the foot
Moreover by positioning yourself this way, you suggest that you are a high value man who doesn't give a flying f*ck whether she stays or leaves...
And this puts in her the fear of losing you (women are afraid of losing high value men😂)because she knows that in a world full of simps & feminised men, a Masculine man/high value man is golden & would be equally desired by other beautiful women,ie, she can be easily replaced