We seem to be horribly failing the young men of this country
That’s the one commonality in the vast majority of mass shootings. It’s not race or ideology. They’re young males. We are doing absolutely everything wrong when it comes to promoting healthy masculinity, purpose, & goodness for these boys and men.
If we really cared, we would be doing EVERYTHING we can to promote fatherhood, hard work, & honor. We’d be getting these boys off the internet and into hobbies and jobs and communities where they can channel their strength. We’d be desperately pushing them toward meaning.
Our denial of innate gender differences, coupled with the demonizing of masculine strength, don’t help. There is nothing more dangerous than a man with nothing to do and no one to live for. There is also nothing more beneficial to a community than a man with purpose and love.
It’s much easier to offer meaningless political talking points than it is to reckon with the societal, spiritual ROT that’s eroded our foundations and connections. And most people don’t see it, because they are contributors to the moral deficit our country faces.
Maybe we should all ask - what are our churches, schools, organizations, neighborhoods doing to address this problem? How are we helping fatherless, purposeless boys? Many are already doing good work. We can all do more.
There truly has to be a moral revolution - a radical recalibration of our values - a great awakening - for anything to change. Impossible without the grace of God and a whole lot of effort on our part.
“His neighbor Ruben Flores, 41, said he had a 'pretty rough life' with his mother and that he had tried to be a father figure to the teen.” Fatherlessness is one of the biggest threats we face. dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1…
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When Sophisticated Evangelicals argue the “culture wars” are low brow & “moral panic,” they mean conservative ones, not left-wing ones. They chastise you for talking about gender ideology or abortion as they write their 57th column the dangers of systemic racism in 2022.
They’ll talk about the importance of social and racial justice, but when conservatives talk about justice for say, the unborn black babies slaughtered in disproportionate rates every year, they’ll “not like that” you in their latest substack series.
They’ll say Christians should be fighting for the least of these, but that apparently does not include defenseless children being targeted with a predatory, disastrous ideology about the human body and identity.
Ask the most liberal Americans from 2004 if they believe abortion should be legalized, subsidized and celebrated through all 9 months + beyond. The answer would be no.
You think a Dem today could get elected to a nationwide office by being pro traditional marriage like Obama did in 2008?
“My company/university/organization/hospital is pressuring everyone to put their pronouns in their email signature for “inclusion.” What do I do?” I get this question every week, and I always say the same thing: don’t do it. Doing so would be lying about what gender is.
It would be affirming the erroneous idea that gender is something that can be decided and declared rather than something that is biological & observable. So, you don’t do it. And, if asked why, you tell the truth. You either keep it simple: “It is against my beliefs. Thank you.”
Or, “This is not something I’m comfortable with.” You can let them know that their probing into why you’ve chosen not to do so is inappropriate and that you’d like them to respect your beliefs. Or, you can go all in and explain what gender is & how gender ideology is harmful.
The execution of Melissa Lucio has been stayed. Whatever you think of the death penalty, do not believe the propaganda saying she is innocent. Abundant evidence proves she murdered her little 2 year old daughter. Per usual, the Innocence Project, Hollywood & the media lie.
Also, Selina Lucio, Melissa’s daughter and one of the only children actually living at home at the time of Mariah’s murder, claims her mother is absolutely guilty and that her voice was purposely excluded from the Hulu doc & Innocence Proj talking points. yourtango.com/news/melissa-l…
Here is a thread of my best impressions of the Sophisticated Online Evangelicals who pretend they’re nuanced but are actually just embarrassed that conservative Christians aren’t more worldly. Let me know how I do.
“Yes, Ketanji Brown Jackson has a history of going easy on men who distribute images of child rape and will make decisions that will lead to more baby murder & less religious liberty, but here’s why Christians should be celebrating —>
imbetterthanyou.substack”
“How Biden’s support of child genital mutilation, open borders, & late term abortion are holistically pro-life. A thread.
It’s not enough to be not a groomer. One must be actively anti-grooming. Those who defend themselves against accusations of grooming are simply expressing Groomer Fragility. They harbor secret groomer traits & must be shown the ways they’ve benefited from a systemic grooming.
Silence is violence when it comes to the grooming of children. Unless you are actively working to dismantle the systems of grooming, you are upholding the institutions that have oppressed children for centuries. It’s time to listen & learn. Know better so you can do better.
Get educated on this, but also don’t make those of us doing this work expend any more energy than we have to by teaching you. Resources on this stuff abound. I recommend starting with the brave @libsoftiktok to see how what this system of grooming looks like.