I've come to agree that things were better with me when I didn't have a plan. This is not to say having a plan is not good. But for me, I usually didn't have to think about a plan or page my own life on a sheet with dates and time. I'd like to say it was the best plan...
... I focused on the things I had to do and happily give it my best shot. The next stage would naturally open up by itself. My life is already planned and I think I follow the plan the best when I don't have to think about planning my life. I don't know know how it is with you,
But this is my experience. I was happier then. Having heard much talks that made me appear irresponsible, I started making plans as if I were a human being. That thing hasn't helped my life as they say it does. I used to flow and glide into life, now I have to force and labour...
I have come to my senses and I'm reverting to default. I've had the best stories and personal achievement that way. This New Creature will work with the design of God for his life and be as excellent and happy as should be. Man know thyself...