"They could have evacuated."
"Why didn't they evacuate?"
"That's what you get for not evacuating."
As a lifelong Florida resident who grew up low-income on Sanibel Island which has been destroyed by #Ian hear me when I say this:
Evacuating is HARD.
You need to figure out where to go, which is problematic because hurricanes MOVE QUICKLY and are HARD TO PREDICT.
So maybe you just need to go inland?
But maybe you need to leave the state?
But maybe the rest of the seaboard will get hit too?
Let's say you decide to yeet off the East Coast until the storm passes.
How are you getting to that place?
Are you driving? Is that fast enough? Can you get everyone in the car? Will you be able to afford the gas? Where will you stay overnight?
Let's fly instead.
How much is a last minute plane ticket? Can you afford to buy enough of them for your whole family? Where will you stay when you arrive? How will you get to that place?
Ok, you have somehow dealt with all of that and you are in Wisconsin or whatever.
How long will you have to stay in that place? How much will that cost? How are you feeding yourself and your family? Are you able to generate any income during this time?
This is the calculation people have to make when a hurricane is coming.
That is a HARD calculation. It's even harder when you're poor.
Growing up, my family has had to make it dozens of times.
If you've never had to evacuate a hurricane, don't make assumptions. Listen.
Let's talk about how HURRICANE SHELTERS work in FL.
(This is based on growing up on Sanibel, other localities might do things differently)
Shelters are usually functional public facilities like libraries and school gyms (sometimes churches).
They don't so much exist as shelters as much as they are ACTIVATED as shelters.
Local govt activates the shelters, they are stocked and staffed, then their availability is communicated to the public so people safely evac.
Sounds simple, right? Ehhhhh......
Each one of those steps has a million things that can and do go wrong that make it slower, harder, or just impossible for people to use them for safety.
Anxious about an upcoming job interview?
This is what I tell my coaching clients:
1⃣ Focus on what you can control
2⃣ Let go of the outcome
3⃣ Research and prep
4⃣ Limit your time investment
5⃣ Distract when you can't act
1⃣ Focus on what you can control:
Hiring processes have tons of moving pieces. It's impossible for you to know what they all are or control them.
Try not to fixate on the insight you wish you had or the things you wish they'd do. Focus exclusively on what you can control.
2⃣ Let go of the outcome:
The #1 thing you can't control is whether you're chosen for the role. Focusing on how badly you want the job (or how badly you want out of your current one) supercharges your anxiety.
Use that energy to set yourself up for good interview performance.