So this is actually a pretty common and desperate technique but gather round the fire and I shall tell you the legend of how one of my first bosses reversed this like a ninja
I was working at large toy store and admittedly things between the company and the store were tense.
At one point during a meeting the assistant GM of the store stands up shouts “THATS ENOUGH!” And storms out
Now this COMPLETELY worked on me. I was ready to do or say anything to diffuse the tension.
My boss however is a north England traveller who used to make a lot cigarette appear out of his mouth…he was…to say the least..unphased
So he immediately turns to me and says “go to the closest pizza place and buy 10 pizzas” and I do and bring them back.
While I’m doing that he walks around the corporate office inviting everyone into the meeting room for lunch
By the time yelly guy gets back half of admin is sitting around the table eating pizza. Including his boss who grows ever more pissed that he “took a lunch break without warning”
Needless to say the rest of the meeting went really smoothly
I love you q. Thanks for saving me from the fountain and I’m sorry you had to sleep on my front steps that one time
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Let me be clear. Remaining on deadlock with having the senate but not the house is not acceptable the way newsletters and centrist newspapers are trying to make it out to be
We have to obliterate them in the midterms or turn to violence. Those are the options folks
If Moore v Harper is left to the Supreme Court we’ll never win another election again.
You know me. I’m mr. Vote vote vote.
That will stop mattering almost completely.
This is the big one folks.
Knock on doors.
Register people to vote.
Whatever you gotta do for this one.
Take it from the great grandson of a guy who fled the pogroms. If we can’t make this happen we need to get the fuck out cause there is no coming back.
You know what the most fucked up thing about trumpers,qanoners, etc. is?
It’s just a hobby for these people
Time after time. Study after study these people believe what they say they do very strongly but if you introduce ANY other kind of activity into their lives…they drop it
Fishing? Needlepoint? Even a computer class. BOOM. GONE.
In fact there’s an argument to be made that this method of distraction IS the best way to deradicalize them because they never have to admit they were wrong
They just find a new hobby with less pushback…and so now they do that
So the John Cleese thing has me thinking our community needs a serious conversation about the problems about talking about “superior cultures”
Sure I’ve got assholes in my mentions but I’ve also got genuinely confused/kind people so let’s do this
1. The dog whistle:
Before we get into get into ANY of the arguments (and we will) we need to acknowledge that “superior culture” has been a dogwhistle for racists for a while.
Its important to acknowledge that AND find other language EVEN when we’re right
Be it ethics in gaming journalism or genetic differences between men and women we know bigots use legitimately curious/concerned people as a shield and more importantly the REACTION to those dogwhistles as cover
“Ya see that? They’ll call you a racist just for saying FGM is bad”
I know I’m a broken record but I had a new thought last night.
My dad had all these friends who never got over Vietnam. They weren’t THERE but they never stopped talking about it.
I’m pretty sure that’s gonna be me with trump
But last night I realized why
See I thought it was just so HORRIBLE that it gets stuck in your brain.
Younger people become part of the political landscape and you try to warn them but they haven’t experienced it so you become the guy RANTING about mai lai at a 13 year old at a dinner party
But I was listening to NPR last night. This story about us taking away this woman’s five year old.
About her getting this kid back. And I’m filled with all this rage right?
I’m just sitting there thinking “WHY IS NOBODY STOPPING THIS? WHERE IS THE ARMED REBELLION!”